"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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when does a girl become a waste of time?

Double J

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when do you know that it's time to call it quits when you're fixed on one particular girl? When should she be NEXTed?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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xhikari

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i guess when she starts wastin ur time, steppin over ur head, treats u like an emotional tampon, and other stuff like those....she is a waste of ur time already.
 

Dukester

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when she acts like my g/f (btw i still need to break up w/ her- havent yet, cuz i havent had the time. she can wait for me to break it to her, haha)

my g/f was being all standoffish, and stressed out, etc.. so i decided that she wasnt worth the trouble. havent talked to her in 2 weeks, i need to tell it to her soon.

other symptoms:

when she treats you like ****
when she's not putting out
when she is NOT GIVING YOU WHAT YOU WANT
 

Desdinova

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When she's making excuses not to have sex.
When she's still busy after offering her a date 3 times
When she quits returning your calls after you've called her 3 times
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Giovanni Casanova

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When does a guy on this site start wasting our time? When he starts asking if a girl is wasting his time.

Here comes the Cluemobile! WOOOOOOOO WOOOOOOOOO! We can't tell you when a girl is wasting your time! Only you will know that! That's like coming here and asking, "Do I like girls who wear glasses? Do I like my girlfriend's new honey-melon shampoo?"
 

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If you're not getting what you want, you leave. Simple.
 

DeathDealer

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A girl is wasting my time if she doesn't say YES to my request for a meetup about 2-3 times.

A girl is wasting my time if she uses the words "Let's just be friends"

A girl is wasting my time if she keeps canceling or changing my date times/events.

Since I'm the nice type that gives second chances, I usually do give a second chance in a very short time and I want her to be better next time. If everything repeats again, I just cut her off.
 

JasonR

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when you ask yourself the question

"is this girl worth a waste of my time"

if you have to comtemplate it, then she is.

NEXT.
 

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Miss Queen Bee!!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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