When do you know if you are just "settling" for the best. Say you think a girl is a 6.5 or 7. If you bone her are you doing yourself a disservice? I am at the point where I can sleep with 7's, but they're not as fulfilling as 8s and 9s.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
When do you know if you are just settling?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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This is kinda going into the foundations of game here.
You don't want to commit to a girl that doesnt totally do it for you. Just commit enough to keep her around.
You must keep hanging with other female friends and since you are not committed you don't have to lie about having a girlfriend. Yet you are still in a good place to meet other girls.
If something better comes along upgrade.
If nothing better comes along keep bangin the 7. Maybe she will see you are not committed, have game and will increase her value to you by doing cool stuff.
Let me tell you a 7 with absolutely no sexual inhibitions with a nice rack or booty is a keeper in my book!
You don't want to commit to a girl that doesnt totally do it for you. Just commit enough to keep her around.
You must keep hanging with other female friends and since you are not committed you don't have to lie about having a girlfriend. Yet you are still in a good place to meet other girls.
If something better comes along upgrade.
If nothing better comes along keep bangin the 7. Maybe she will see you are not committed, have game and will increase her value to you by doing cool stuff.
Let me tell you a 7 with absolutely no sexual inhibitions with a nice rack or booty is a keeper in my book!
I am never satisfied with a 6-7. I will always think I can do better. Funny thing is after I break it off if I don't already have something better lined up I go through a phase of doubting if I actually can get better.