When do you know if you are just "settling" for the best. Say you think a girl is a 6.5 or 7. If you bone her are you doing yourself a disservice? I am at the point where I can sleep with 7's, but they're not as fulfilling as 8s and 9s.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
When do you know if you are just settling?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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This is kinda going into the foundations of game here.
You don't want to commit to a girl that doesnt totally do it for you. Just commit enough to keep her around.
You must keep hanging with other female friends and since you are not committed you don't have to lie about having a girlfriend. Yet you are still in a good place to meet other girls.
If something better comes along upgrade.
If nothing better comes along keep bangin the 7. Maybe she will see you are not committed, have game and will increase her value to you by doing cool stuff.
Let me tell you a 7 with absolutely no sexual inhibitions with a nice rack or booty is a keeper in my book!
You don't want to commit to a girl that doesnt totally do it for you. Just commit enough to keep her around.
You must keep hanging with other female friends and since you are not committed you don't have to lie about having a girlfriend. Yet you are still in a good place to meet other girls.
If something better comes along upgrade.
If nothing better comes along keep bangin the 7. Maybe she will see you are not committed, have game and will increase her value to you by doing cool stuff.
Let me tell you a 7 with absolutely no sexual inhibitions with a nice rack or booty is a keeper in my book!
I am never satisfied with a 6-7. I will always think I can do better. Funny thing is after I break it off if I don't already have something better lined up I go through a phase of doubting if I actually can get better.