When do you know if you are just "settling" for the best. Say you think a girl is a 6.5 or 7. If you bone her are you doing yourself a disservice? I am at the point where I can sleep with 7's, but they're not as fulfilling as 8s and 9s.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
When do you know if you are just settling?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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This is kinda going into the foundations of game here.
You don't want to commit to a girl that doesnt totally do it for you. Just commit enough to keep her around.
You must keep hanging with other female friends and since you are not committed you don't have to lie about having a girlfriend. Yet you are still in a good place to meet other girls.
If something better comes along upgrade.
If nothing better comes along keep bangin the 7. Maybe she will see you are not committed, have game and will increase her value to you by doing cool stuff.
Let me tell you a 7 with absolutely no sexual inhibitions with a nice rack or booty is a keeper in my book!
You don't want to commit to a girl that doesnt totally do it for you. Just commit enough to keep her around.
You must keep hanging with other female friends and since you are not committed you don't have to lie about having a girlfriend. Yet you are still in a good place to meet other girls.
If something better comes along upgrade.
If nothing better comes along keep bangin the 7. Maybe she will see you are not committed, have game and will increase her value to you by doing cool stuff.
Let me tell you a 7 with absolutely no sexual inhibitions with a nice rack or booty is a keeper in my book!
I am never satisfied with a 6-7. I will always think I can do better. Funny thing is after I break it off if I don't already have something better lined up I go through a phase of doubting if I actually can get better.