When do you decide to lose her number?

[tomwesten27]

2 Strike Rule? 3 Strike Rule? I try not to allow myself to ask a girl out more then twice. Is that a good rule of thumb? 3 seems to desperate.

When you ask a new girl out on a specific day and she comes back with she has plans or is busy, and does not give you a counter offer. Does it scream desperate throwing another day at her? Meaning if she is busy Tuesday, can I say "Ok how about Thursday?" Or whats a good way to play it?

At 22 years old I SUCK at texting. I hate texting. I want to just meet face to face but my track record is I always seem to over text and come off needy and desperate.

What are some good rules with this?

 

[Greasy Pig]

Initially, you should ask her what days she's available.
If she gives you excuses with no counter, leave it a week and try again.
If the same happens, ditch the number.

 

[sylvester the cat]

the moment you find yourself asking when you should lose her number is probably a good time to lose her number.

 

[MtnMan]

the moment you find yourself asking when you should lose her number is probably a good time to lose her number.

I second this!
An interested girl won't really confuse you, or make you wonder if you should delete her number.

 

[nismo-4]

I give women ONE chance with me.

If she flakes or pulls some excuse, she is deleted from every platform I have her on. Kicked to the curb. Why waste time on a woman with low to no interest?

Besides, when a woman flakes or blurs on you, she lost your number and rejected you first.

Case closed.

 

[VladPatton]

Yep, ask twice, and if nothing happens it's el deleto. As for texting, just keep a scope in mind. Text for a purpose and not for fluff. If she initiates fluff texts, ok, reply whenever, otherwise just text to see when she can come out and play.

 

[mike465]

Ask once.
If nothing then delete