when do i text? what should i say? pls help

[sargent158]

Hello my good friends from so suave, I hope everyone is doing great! Alright so here's my problem:

I met this girl at work and she seemed to like me but I didn't really pay attention to her, for whatever gay reason, before she left work she will always stand next to me and stay a few minutes later just to talk to me, but I still didn't notice, I will send her little text here there nothing to serious, and just last night she texted me saying she just got home, I was like damn you should of called so we could of hanged out, and she was like come visit me, so I'm like hell yes!, so I go we chill in my car and the whole time I'm flirting with her dying to kiss her, but I controlled my self cuz I didn't want to rush in to anything and get played, so after we talked I notice she was getting sleepy so I offered to take her home and I did, when I went to go give her a hug she went and started making out with me, so it worked out great but now I don't know when to text her since I hardly ever did before and I don't want to look desperate, and if I did what would be a good way to start a convo after this. I kno this is dumb but I don't want to look dumb pls help

 

[jcap]

"had a wonderful time with you "


simple, don't complicate sh1t like the nerds on here. Good job btw.

 

[decadentdestruction]

be chill... continue living your life . I usually don't text back , I wait then I get a txt like 2 days later...
let them chase you ..
but in this case , I think what wolf replied is definitely true ... but here is my twist on the lines : next time you and the girl hug. whisper into her ear "last night was fun... we should do it again sometime"...

, I think once u start getting the hang of things you will develop your own style ...

and add your own twists...

good job on making out with the girl ....

I liked the whole I am tired let me take u home part ... good move

 

[BeyondCharm]

Texting is totally subjective i've found...

A lot of the really clever texts generate responses with some women while others interpret them wrong and scare them off.

One girl I texted "Roses are blue, violets are red, I suck at poems, But I'm great in bed' and she loved it... Another I sent something similar and she ignored it and stopped texting me..

I've found texting to be a weak form of banter because it can easily be ignored or misinterpreted, unlike a phonecall or meeting in person.

I recommend texting to be kept short, sincere and also used for setting up dates and confirming plans. Don't try to make too much of a game out of it unless you want to waste a lot of time. my 2-cents.

 

[BeyondCharm]

i just call them whenever I feel like "responding to their texts" unless its something urgent or its related to our date plans.

 

[BeyondCharm]

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