"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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When do girls become as "evil" and selfish as they are described by red pill?

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Don't care about her money contributions, but I would hope most DJs have this as a minimum standard as well as no divorce, no kids, intact family with prominent father figure, intelligent enough, traditional-minded, inter alia.


True for the majority, not all, of the high-end. However, an LTR with a woman whom doesn't prompt you to want to fvck her brains out will provide you limited happiness and, thus, is also transient if you grow bored. Been there a few times ... unfortunately.
Assumed here is LTRs last forever ... and happily ever after. This is certainly not the case in most instances: if not stopped by the former, then trapped by the latter. Best to accept relationships as transient by nature and enjoy the now.

Nothing wrong with shooting for high SMV in a woman ... if that is what you desire. Best choice ideally on looks and quality is somewhere in the middle between SMV acceptable and SMV best.
If you've truly ever banged a hot girl.. You know that after about the 6th time.. She just isn't as hot anymore..

The boners get a little less stiffer and by time number 50 she isn't even that hot to you anymore..

So its pointless.. Its like getting the latest Benz every year..
That 2016 SClass Benz looks crappy compared to the 17, but everyone who can't get the s class don't understand they think your 16 is amazing... So you trade up for the 17. Then the 18 comes out and .. Uh oh.
Its a never ending cycle..same with hot girls.

Thats why chasing looks past the point of "does she get my d*ck hard is pointless.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I think there are jobs that are better suited to men, like military for example. And there are jobs that are better suited to females, like nursing. I guess I'm a bit old school I don't know , but I do see both fields as having a very vital role in society. Now those are two fields have always complimented each other, nurses caring for wounded soldiers on the front lines back in the day. Both men and women risked their lives being out in the middle of those war zones doing what they needed to do. Those nurses and soldiers were pretty brave. Back then people didn't debate what was proper or PC or oppressive when faced with losing their freedom, both genders pitched in and did what they had to do for the betterment of everyone. I think a lot of that drive has been lost in recent times.
Lol. Female nurses are not in war zones.

Not a single female landed in Normandy on D-Day. Not even nurses.

Your knowledge of history is wrong.

There are jobs that women don't do because they can't. There are no jobs that men are incapable of doing and few, if any, that women are even better at. And this includes traditional female jobs like nurse, teacher, even waitress and bartender.

If females traveled with armies, it was to provide sex to the soldiers. They were not on the battlefields. Perhaps they stayed in the camps and acted as nurses, perhaps not.
 

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If you've truly ever banged a hot girl.. You know that after about the 6th time.. She just isn't as hot anymore..
Think you're confusing bangable women with women on the upper-tier of whom you could attract.

Thats why chasing looks past the point of "does she get my d*ck hard is pointless.
Yup, I once thought this. One divorce later based on this issue alone would change your perspective. Unfortunately, it doesn't work this way.
 
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Think you're confusing bangable women with women on the upper-tier of whom you could attract.

Yup, I once thought this. One divorce later based on this issue alone would change your perspective. Unfortunately, it doesn't work this way.
You never told me what your "status" was.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Once they hit puberty and become sexualized they realize the power their vag has over the opposite sex
I thought that this is the answer to the original question. Girls seem fine until they lose virginity and then proceed to have more than one boyfriend/pork sessions.
 
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Lol. Female nurses are not in war zones.

Not a single female landed in Normandy on D-Day. Not even nurses.

Your knowledge of history is wrong.

There are jobs that women don't do because they can't. There are no jobs that men are incapable of doing and few, if any, that women are even better at. And this includes traditional female jobs like nurse, teacher, even waitress and bartender.

If females traveled with armies, it was to provide sex to the soldiers. They were not on the battlefields. Perhaps they stayed in the camps and acted as nurses, perhaps not.
Did I say they were on the beach on D - Day? I'm not saying they were in the trenches lol. Oh wow.
And the definition of a war zone, Frog, is a region where a war is taking place. Nurses weren't mailing wounded soldiers gauze and bandages with instructions on how to use them, lol, they weren't in another country providing telehealth.

So there is no job that men are incapable of doing? None at all Frog?

Are you willing to bet your future millions on that? Because I
Lol. Female nurses are not in war zones.

Not a single female landed in Normandy on D-Day. Not even nurses.

Your knowledge of history is wrong.

There are jobs that women don't do because they can't. There are no jobs that men are incapable of doing and few, if any, that women are even better at. And this includes traditional female jobs like nurse, teacher, even waitress and bartender.

If females traveled with armies, it was to provide sex to the soldiers. They were not on the battlefields. Perhaps they stayed in the camps and acted as nurses, perhaps not.
I didn't say they were on the beach during D-Day Frog.

A war zone, by the way, is defined as a place where a war is taking place. Nurses weren't mailing wounded soldiers gauze and bandages with instruction leaflets. I don't think they had time to carry the wounded by train or ship to whatever safe cozy country the nurses were chilling in. Why don't you google, "Nurses in the war zone during ww2 ww1" and see for yourself.

But thanks for the facts Frog, by the way I didn't know that men could be wetnurses, which I guess they can be if there is no job they are incapable of doing.
 

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Lol, little OT, are we?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I feel like I'm being sucked into his vortex. I have only myself to blame.
Some guys in this site are attention wh0res. They LOVE the attention of the back and forth, and will continue to argue with you in order to get it.
When I find myself thinking "this issue has become an attention seeking mechanism for this poster, and I blame myself for continuing to participate" I state that I am are done responding, and then be done with it, no matter what they say

Remember, you don't have to pay attention to them, even if they directly tag you, especially if the back and forth turns into bullchit
 

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When he can no longer get that, he will begin to appreciate that....
Or if 6s and 7s are the best one can get, they will be appreciated. Thus therein lies Cola's operandi.

I don't mind 7s intermittently ... that is, for that one time and toss.

Good to see you back.
 

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Or if 6s and 7s are the best one can get, they will be appreciated.
You understand what I mean...

6's and 7's can easily mean 7's and 8's here.......you know......

that is, for that one time and toss.
You got it, but you still appreciate it for what it is. You don't diminish the value of the one time and toss, do you?

I know you appreciate, that's why it grows...

Good to see you back.
Cheers my man
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Or if 6s and 7s are the best one can get, they will be appreciated. Thus therein lies Cola's operandi.

I don't mind 7s intermittently ... that is, for that one time and toss.

Good to see you back.
Now can you actually provide proof that you get with 9's and 10's? With all the talk on this forum, I've never actually seen concrete evidence that anyone fvcks super hot girls even once, let alone regularly.
 

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But most of us here arent 8' s, 9' s and 10s ourselves.. Why can't you be happy with a freaky 6-7 who does whatever you say?
Because once you've been with a 9.. its very hard to ever develop feelings for anything less.

Not everyone likes to settle.
 

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Now can you actually provide proof that you get with 9's and 10's? With all the talk on this forum, I've never actually seen concrete evidence that anyone fvcks super hot girls even once, let alone regularly.
Send me $5,000 via paypal and I will prove it to via any type of photos/videos you request. 5 photos and one video max. Deal?
 

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The police and military are some yardstick of important jobs? Jesus. When I was at school, it was the dumb kids who went off to do those kind of jobs.

Modern society allows beta males to earn money doing office jobs? Yes, because we are no longer cavemen. Pure physical might, and spacial planning like building walls is no longer important. Why? Those beta males created machines which made those skills irrelevant.
There are millions of stupid feckers in construction who literally just know how to bang nails into wood, or put bolts into metal. There area ton of female doctors, lawyers, accountants etc. You seriously think some dead brained builder drinking shots in hooters after work is more valuable than a female doctor?

You are confusing spacial awareness, or the ability to build physical things with value. Robots will soon be doing this while intellectual capital is king.

I don't much like the feminists but you sound exactly like the men feminists talk about who have been "left behind" by modern society.

I used to do physical work but I changed to intellectual work. It has nothing to do with alpha or beta.
LMAO! Someone is more than just a little bit out of touch with reality.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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