"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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When did your sex drive slow down?

Unclelido

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So full of bull

Fuglydude said:
Hey guys,

Just wondering when you noticed your sex drive start to slow down. I turned 29 a couple of months ago, and when I'm on cycle I need it like 3 times a day. Usually only get it once or twice when I'm working, but if I'm off I'll usually get sex once or twice and have to spank it another 1-2 times...

Only time I notice a big drop in my sex drive, as expected, is for 6 weeks or so when I come off cycle. When I'm off, my sex drive isn't as strong, but I still like it at least twice a day.

I guess I'm just wondering when different people's sex drive slowed down so I know what to expect for myself.

Thanks in advance for the replies.
Anyone reading this is bull must be a fool. Even the most ardently active sexually healthy person can see he is making this up. To value your sexuality and relationship with a woman, you don't have sex three times a day and jerk off another two. If this moron does it this much, then he is not only physically abusing himself, but requires psychological therapy. Even an animal doesn't want sex nor has it continuously. The bull he is feeding you all is comical, he's trying to make you believe he screws ten times a day, and girlfriend is a model, and she is so busy yet screws him continuously. What fantasy world is he trying to convince us of? I laughed so hard, it's like a teenager trying to impress his buddies. Don't buy his crap, it's so funny, I'm dying.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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reBourne

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No decline yet. Actually lately (last 2-3 months) I've been hornier then usual.
 

Zarky

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When I started taking Finasteride my libido started to roller-coaster. Although I still wack off 1-2 times a day.
 

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I can still get it and manage it twice per day, havent tried more yet, havent really got the time due to shift work.

the desire or drive to hunt it has diminished though. womens bodies still turn me on but they open their mouths and have so much external expectations that goes with the sex that I really cant be that bothered anymore.

went out with a pof date last night,we went to a busy bar, place was full of women, loud women, I could hear their conversations, f cuck it man it was boring and the crap the come out with.

phsyically it all still works, mentally, Im quite happy to go dry for a while for it to not bother me.
 

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got another woman on POF texting really raunchy teasing stuff, she is a bit of an AW but she seems really into sex and role play and she looks cool, had phone sex and that was pretty good too.
mentally this one does it for me, Ive found as I get older, what ticks the boxes in my mind is as important as the physical aspect.
due to eet this one next friday daytime.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I am 37 and take a test booster and am a workout machine so my levels are off the charts right now it seems...I could have it all day every day and I would still want it...
 

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Funny, I just revisited this thread and I think my sex drive has declined. I'm 30.

Once a week is about my ideal, although I do like oral 2-3 times a week. Sex is just messy and often a production to honest....foreplay, 20-30 minutes of banging, shower, clean up. It's an hour minimum. I know that sounds whiny, and it probably is, but I find if I do it only once a week I keep my enthusiasm for it. Oral is easy, just as pleasurable and little clean-up.

My testosterone levels are fine because my strength is good in the gym and I get wood almost every morning. The sex thing has actually been a point of contention between me and my gf because she wants it more than once a week. Poor me, I know.
 
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