When did your sex drive slow down?

[Fuglydude]

Hey guys,

Just wondering when you noticed your sex drive start to slow down. I turned 29 a couple of months ago, and when I'm on cycle I need it like 3 times a day. Usually only get it once or twice when I'm working, but if I'm off I'll usually get sex once or twice and have to spank it another 1-2 times...

Only time I notice a big drop in my sex drive, as expected, is for 6 weeks or so when I come off cycle. When I'm off, my sex drive isn't as strong, but I still like it at least twice a day.

I guess I'm just wondering when different people's sex drive slowed down so I know what to expect for myself.

Thanks in advance for the replies.

 

[sodbuster]

It really didn't slow down. With the RIGHT woman,it's still there. It's just that I find fewer "right" women now because I'm not willing to put up with sh1t just to get laid. After a couple thousand times,with several different women.... You realize it's all the same. Kind of like how you outgrow video games after 10 years of playing them

 

[Rubirosa]

Posts # 33 and # 35
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=180465&page=

 

[runner83]

Holy sh!t!

Personally, for me, I'm younger than you and if I'm in a relationship, once a day is fine.

Probably because of the nature of my job I have to (but not always) get up early, you are busy at work all day, and then doing weights / exercise in the afternoon / early evening, so all that is left is a night-time fvck.

But right now, my arm is broken and in a brace, I have put all the girls I was going to meet up with (from online) on hold for 4 weeks until the brace is off (may lose 75% of them because of the delay, but meh, they can be replaced), so I'm just focused on taking it easy, my recovery and resisting the urge to turn to internet porn. :nono:

 

[Fuglydude]

Holy sh!t!

Personally, for me, I'm younger than you and if I'm in a relationship, once a day is fine.

Probably because of the nature of my job I have to (but not always) get up early, you are busy at work all day, and then doing weights / exercise in the afternoon / early evening, so all that is left is a night-time fvck.

But right now, my arm is broken and in a brace, I have put all the girls I was going to meet up with (from online) on hold for 4 weeks until the brace is off (may lose 75% of them because of the delay, but meh, they can be replaced), so I'm just focused on taking it easy, my recovery and resisting the urge to turn to internet porn. :nono:

Ya I can see how the busted humerus would affect sex...I'm sure you'll do fine after the brace is off though.

I almost always work 12 hour shifts and although I'm tired I REALLY need to bust a nut afterwards. I find it really helps me to sleep. I'm usually gassed if I do a full 1.5 hour training session after work, but will still get a quickie in if there's time! If I have the next day off and my fiance has to work, we'll typically do it, then I'll have to come downstairs and rub another one out... sometimes two if I'm really horny.

Again, I blame the gear, but I even have to do this when I'm off, albeit less frequently.

 

[KarmaSutra]

Since I got divorced in 2002, I've had nothing but(t) phenomenal sex with phenomenal women.

My sex drives only gets more insatiable and ravenous as I become more experienced and appreciate of sexually ravenous, experienced women.

 

[runner83]

Ya I can see how the busted humerus would affect sex...I'm sure you'll do fine after the brace is off though.

Yeah, should get back into it pretty quick, but does definitely make it pretty awkward.

This is a pic of what my brace looks like, which I got on Tuesday after the cast came off:

http://www.supportsusa.com/donjoy/Shoulder/humeral_stabilizing_system.htm

Will have to wear this for 4 weeks minimum.

Even the colour scheme is the same. Only difference are my tits aren't that big.

 

[sixersfan]

I've got a friend who is about 67. I asked him about this and he said well..... at my age you only think about it 99% of the time. lol Can any of you older guys confirm this?

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

What are you cycling?

 

[5string]

Here is the good news for you younger guys.

I slowed a bit when I hit 50, BUT, I can last as long as I want. These days, on the average, I get it more than once a day. I always think about it, just like I did when I was younger.

There is just as much action to be had out there when in you 40's and 50's.

 

[squirrels]

It comes and it goes. Around 30 I noticed a decline.

Not so much that I don't want the sex, just that I get annoyed wasting all that time hanging out with women just to get it.

When I was in my mid-20s, I'd get horny for any and no reason. Now, it seems to hit me situationally...when I'm in proximity to an attractive woman, for example.

I never understood the guys who were always like, "I NEED it x times a week or x times a day". Dude, c'mon...get a life.

 

[Mr.Positive]

It's funny, because in my late 20's I had the same concern..worries that my sex drive would slow down. At 37 now, it's still as strong as before, and I'm also physically at my strongest.

I think as you age, you don't 'lose' the drive, you just gain the ability to control it more.

 

[Colossus]

You and I are the almost exactly the same age Fug....but you have one crazy overdrive libido! (lol that sounded pretty gay)

When I am on cycle it's not so much that I want it MORE, it's that I can 'recover' faster and be ready to go again. Off cycle my drive is still healthy by my definition, assuming I have a gf I like it 5-6 times a week. I try not to jerk it much these days...keeps me strong lol.

I remember the first time I did test, man I swear I could have hammered holes in the earth I was so sexually aggressive. The gf loved it!

Rollo- cycling for me is test and nandrolone.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Judging from my 'morning wood' today, I'll just say, "not yet"

 

[Fuglydude]

Thanks for all the replies gentlemen.

Rollo - currently I'm on a test blend and a tren blend. Lotsa shorter acting stuff.

I think I've been noticing it more lately because I haven't been working as much. I have quite a bit of vacation and stat time built up so been taking it pretty easy lately! For example, I only work 2x in the next 11 days. This is quite a departure from the regular 50+ hours/week that I'm used to.

Colossus - Have you ever done any sust or omnadren? I suspect that shorter acting esters are great at really increasing libido. As you said the refractory period when you're on is quite amazing. I can pretty much go again within 15 minutes after busting a nut. It doesn't feel like I'm satiated unless I get it multiple times, which kinda sucks. Believe it or not I'm actually quite tame compared to some of the guys I've worked with!

Runner - That's some crazy arm brace!! Whoa! Looks like a crazy space-age robo-arm or something! I can definitely see how that would make things hard (no pun intended)!

Squirrels - I see what you're saying about the "needing it x times a day, etc"... Like I said before, its a lot easier to control when I'm busier. When I have a lot of free time, I think about sex A LOT. Guess I'm not used to having this much free time. Working 50+ hours per week and training/dieting take up a lot of your time. I'm not sure what you do for work, but try studying when all you can think about is how good it feels to have your cack against the back of your girls' throat.

I hate having to masturbate when I get sex regularly... My fiance works 8-4 x 5 days a week and she's currently 11 weeks out from a high level figure comp, so she's training over 10 hours a week. She's also doing modeling/photography gigs on the side. She's really busy now, but I can still see her almost every night, and she never says no. I just wish I didn't spank it as much as I do. I really value self discipline and all the crap and feel like jerking off takes away from the aggression and drive that I could focus on training or something else productive.

Keep the replies coming! Its good to hear that it gets easier to control as one ages.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

I know science says test levels decline as we age, but I don't think its THAT big of a difference or at least it shouldn't be at our age Fugly. I'm into a lot of alternative medicine stuff and find a direct correlation with lack of good saturated fats in the diet, stress and physically out of shape accounting for 90% of lowered libido for men as they age.

For those guys who feel like they've lost their sex drive or want a bump to it, try letting go of some stress, relax more. Secondly try adding good saturated fats into your diet like butter and whole eggs. Lastly, consider taking a zinc supplement as many many many people are deficient in this key mineral, which plays a key role in test production.

For me, lately I've been hornier than ever.....lol But that's mainly because I'm hitting the gym hard lately (bulking) and definitely have low stress.

If your on a test blend I'd imagine that some of them are slower acting which will still be in your system a few weeks to a month after you've stopped. No doubt that, your future Mrs and your high physical activity are def contributing factors! haha

My brother in law is 37 and says he's still horny as ever....lol He also is a big time athlete, always doing something. There's definitely a correlation.





PIMP

 

[bluenorther]

I was still good for all nighters when I was forty, but then my blood pressure began climbing. That works against us; it's the basic component for ED. Two years ago, I could still have awesome sex with the *right* partner, but the catch was-- no wanking in between our Friday night booty-calls. My sweetheart joked that I should ignore those Viagra commercials on late-night TV. She couldn't keep up with me.
I was 55 and on the way to a heart attack by then! I wound up having six-tuple bypass surgery to save my worthless life, and the meds haven't helped much since.

 

[Sandow]

My biggest problem is after after sex (I think it's called refraction phase?). I get so damn tired, and takes forever to get horny again. Once I get off, I'm over it and focus on other things, haha. And of course, the girl wants it again, it's like they don't have that refraction phase at all!! If I didn't have this I would bone all day

 

[samspade]

This is one of those subjects where many people are willing to lie to themselves rather than admit the truth.

A lot of 30 + guys act like they never declined. Actually I think the reason is that sex might get better - or men with more practice get better at it, and derive more enjoyment out of it. Who knows.

At least men don't lie to themselves the way women do - I hate all that "women peak sexually at 40" b.s. that gets repeated without rational thought.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear All,
Yes you certainly do lose the energy and enthusiasm of youth....However the good news is that you then plateau for I don't Know how long,because I am still there...Finding interested partners becomes the problem....very much a use it or lose it scenario,here the discreet spinning of Plates helps ...eat your Vitamins,use a Zinc supplement...keep reasonably slim,work out and eat healthily,do your Kegals every Day and you should be OK.....should you have to endure a drought as recently happened to me when I had a couple of new Hips then make sure that you keep the pipes flushed...Oh and yes avoid mixing Alcohol and Svex.