Dark Horse
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Sorry I could not add more poll options otherwise I would have made the thread more specific. When did you lose your virginity?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
When Did You Lose Your Virginity?
- Thread starter Dark Horse
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
TheFixer14
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For a bit I thought it was at age 19. But then I found out that you don't have to cvm to have sex, just penetrate the girl (I had a very religious upbringing). So then I realized that I lost it at 15.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
amazingswayze
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I was exactly 18 and 2 months old lol
C00lAF
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Hahaha i still remember the date of it 12th of april 2014
amazingswayze
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Damn bro I don't remember exactly but I'll never forget it was mid-november. Funny how some dates we just never forget.
C00lAF
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I was the thirsties mother fvcker ever,i can recall her astonished face when she was asking me to take it easy on the nipples,i thod i was sucking on them turns out i was drilling them lol
19.9. To a HB9, 18-year old, platinum blonde hitchhiker who asked me to get her pregnant to piss off her boyfriend (I pulled out both times). I had a 'friend' who told every girl in the city that I was a virgin (especially girls I was dating). This preserved my virginity for another 2 years. When I finally was about to lose it, and in bed with this girl, he ironically came knocking at the door to my apartment, unwittingly hoping for one last chance to maintain my sweet chastity.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
dustmuffin
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16...in a cemetary.
Bible_Belt
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At 16, I went from never having kissed a girl to fvcking one right before my 17th birthday.
Mike32ct
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I was 28. My gf at the time was a 26 yo drug and alcohol counselor. Finally after me stalling for six weeks, she called and told me, "Mike, the first step is admitting that you have a problem, and the next step is seeing someone like me for help. We can do this the easy way or the hard way. Either you come over and F me or I come over there and F you."
<Thought about it for 0.5 seconds>
<Tires squeeling>
Met her at a motel.
Life was MUCH simpler then.
<Thought about it for 0.5 seconds>
<Tires squeeling>
Met her at a motel.
Life was MUCH simpler then.
You actually wasted 0.5 seconds of your life.
What was there to think about??
God I wish something like that would happen to me...
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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Several months ago. So 17.
Mr. Kalikoat
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I lost my virginity when I was 18 years old, a few months after my birthday. Sadly there is no "exactly 18" option so I voted for "late teens".
She was my 2nd real long-term girlfriend. My 1st girlfriend did suck my d*ck and made me come on her tits, but she never allowed me to penetrate her (granted, she was only 15 at the time). My 2nd girlfriend however, allowed me to f*ck her on our first date. She and I were both 18, she was my first, I was her 3rd. It kinda bothered me at the time (that she already f*cked 2 guys before me) but hey, she was extremely good-looking and 18 years old, what can you expect?
She was my 2nd real long-term girlfriend. My 1st girlfriend did suck my d*ck and made me come on her tits, but she never allowed me to penetrate her (granted, she was only 15 at the time). My 2nd girlfriend however, allowed me to f*ck her on our first date. She and I were both 18, she was my first, I was her 3rd. It kinda bothered me at the time (that she already f*cked 2 guys before me) but hey, she was extremely good-looking and 18 years old, what can you expect?
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wifehunter
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at 17, she was 14.
Bingo-Player
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20 i had opportunities to lose it before then but never took them because i didn't know really know wtf i was doing
then i remember when i finally put inside this chick whilst i was on holiday and just thought gees is this it
i smashed her every night after that for a week and by the end after fvcking her on the kitchen worktop i enjoyed it
she was hot too and infact when i told her i was a virgin she flat out refused to belive me lmao
i was the last one out of my freinds to lose it and was more relived than anything when the deed was finally done
think ive fvcked somewhere in the region of 30 & 40 chicks in the last 4 years so not bad stats
although due to my SMV this should be way higher but i live with parents and finding opportunities is difficult
then i remember when i finally put inside this chick whilst i was on holiday and just thought gees is this it
i smashed her every night after that for a week and by the end after fvcking her on the kitchen worktop i enjoyed it
she was hot too and infact when i told her i was a virgin she flat out refused to belive me lmao
i was the last one out of my freinds to lose it and was more relived than anything when the deed was finally done
think ive fvcked somewhere in the region of 30 & 40 chicks in the last 4 years so not bad stats
although due to my SMV this should be way higher but i live with parents and finding opportunities is difficult
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.