Dark Horse
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Sorry I could not add more poll options otherwise I would have made the thread more specific. When did you lose your virginity?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
When Did You Lose Your Virginity?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
TheFixer14
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For a bit I thought it was at age 19. But then I found out that you don't have to cvm to have sex, just penetrate the girl (I had a very religious upbringing). So then I realized that I lost it at 15.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
amazingswayze
Master Don Juan
I was exactly 18 and 2 months old lol
C00lAF
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Hahaha i still remember the date of it 12th of april 2014
amazingswayze
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Damn bro I don't remember exactly but I'll never forget it was mid-november. Funny how some dates we just never forget.
C00lAF
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I was the thirsties mother fvcker ever,i can recall her astonished face when she was asking me to take it easy on the nipples,i thod i was sucking on them turns out i was drilling them lol
19.9. To a HB9, 18-year old, platinum blonde hitchhiker who asked me to get her pregnant to piss off her boyfriend (I pulled out both times). I had a 'friend' who told every girl in the city that I was a virgin (especially girls I was dating). This preserved my virginity for another 2 years. When I finally was about to lose it, and in bed with this girl, he ironically came knocking at the door to my apartment, unwittingly hoping for one last chance to maintain my sweet chastity.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
dustmuffin
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16...in a cemetary.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
At 16, I went from never having kissed a girl to fvcking one right before my 17th birthday.
Mike32ct
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I was 28. My gf at the time was a 26 yo drug and alcohol counselor. Finally after me stalling for six weeks, she called and told me, "Mike, the first step is admitting that you have a problem, and the next step is seeing someone like me for help. We can do this the easy way or the hard way. Either you come over and F me or I come over there and F you."
<Thought about it for 0.5 seconds>
<Tires squeeling>
Met her at a motel.
Life was MUCH simpler then.
<Thought about it for 0.5 seconds>
<Tires squeeling>
Met her at a motel.
Life was MUCH simpler then.
You actually wasted 0.5 seconds of your life.
What was there to think about??
God I wish something like that would happen to me...
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Several months ago. So 17.
Mr. Kalikoat
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I lost my virginity when I was 18 years old, a few months after my birthday. Sadly there is no "exactly 18" option so I voted for "late teens".
She was my 2nd real long-term girlfriend. My 1st girlfriend did suck my d*ck and made me come on her tits, but she never allowed me to penetrate her (granted, she was only 15 at the time). My 2nd girlfriend however, allowed me to f*ck her on our first date. She and I were both 18, she was my first, I was her 3rd. It kinda bothered me at the time (that she already f*cked 2 guys before me) but hey, she was extremely good-looking and 18 years old, what can you expect?
She was my 2nd real long-term girlfriend. My 1st girlfriend did suck my d*ck and made me come on her tits, but she never allowed me to penetrate her (granted, she was only 15 at the time). My 2nd girlfriend however, allowed me to f*ck her on our first date. She and I were both 18, she was my first, I was her 3rd. It kinda bothered me at the time (that she already f*cked 2 guys before me) but hey, she was extremely good-looking and 18 years old, what can you expect?
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wifehunter
Master Don Juan
at 17, she was 14.
Bingo-Player
Master Don Juan
20 i had opportunities to lose it before then but never took them because i didn't know really know wtf i was doing
then i remember when i finally put inside this chick whilst i was on holiday and just thought gees is this it
i smashed her every night after that for a week and by the end after fvcking her on the kitchen worktop i enjoyed it
she was hot too and infact when i told her i was a virgin she flat out refused to belive me lmao
i was the last one out of my freinds to lose it and was more relived than anything when the deed was finally done
think ive fvcked somewhere in the region of 30 & 40 chicks in the last 4 years so not bad stats
although due to my SMV this should be way higher but i live with parents and finding opportunities is difficult
then i remember when i finally put inside this chick whilst i was on holiday and just thought gees is this it
i smashed her every night after that for a week and by the end after fvcking her on the kitchen worktop i enjoyed it
she was hot too and infact when i told her i was a virgin she flat out refused to belive me lmao
i was the last one out of my freinds to lose it and was more relived than anything when the deed was finally done
think ive fvcked somewhere in the region of 30 & 40 chicks in the last 4 years so not bad stats
although due to my SMV this should be way higher but i live with parents and finding opportunities is difficult
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.