“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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When did you guys really start to hit it off and flourish with women?

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Age 18 - realized I could attract gorgeous women, but couldn't close. Dated 16 year old.
Age 25 - pretender but practiced
Age 26 - felt reborn
Age 27 - realized I liked women who were 10 years younger. Started dating 17 year old.
Age 30 - I was a player but had no house and women started nexting me. Dated 18 year old.
Age 35 - suddenly felt too old for 18 year olds.
Age 42 - my consulting business took off, I started dating a 19 year old HB8.
Age 46 - started working 2 jobs and started dating a 20 year old HB9.
 

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Age 18 - realized I could attract gorgeous women, but couldn't close. Dated 16 year old.
Age 25 - pretender but practiced
Age 26 - felt reborn
Age 27 - realized I liked women who were 10 years younger. Started dating 17 year old.
Age 30 - I was a player but had no house and women started nexting me. Dated 18 year old.
Age 35 - suddenly felt too old for 18 year olds.
Age 42 - my consulting business took off, I started dating a 19 year old HB8.
Age 46 - started working 2 jobs and started dating a 20 year old HB9.
Can you elaborate on what you mean by feeling reborn at 26?
 

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When I started gigging during HS at 16.
Even though I had a beta mindset, I did get laid a lot.
But the real break came when I discovered the red pill and understood that spinning multiple women at the same time isn't something to feel guilty about.

Once I started performing with celebrities and came on the television a couple of times, I knew what I was destined for.

A master's degree in computer and some recently inherited wealth doesn't hurt either.
 

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I was a late social bloomer. Got my first kiss and lay when u was almost 19. I went in with the mentality that I had nothing to loose--because I had nothing in the first place. I had accelerated growth from a white knight slate to a well-grounded man over the course of two years.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Age14-15: girls would chase me but I was interested in other things and blew them off.

Age 16: busted my first nut at a keg party sleepover and it was down hill from then multiple girls that year.

Age 17-19 Oneitus struck and I turned numerous other women down for love man wish I didn't.

Age 20 hooked up with a 30 year old soap actress on a cruise, and a few others girls around my age In this phase.

Age 21-24 for some reason older women in their late 20s early 30 could not get enough of me yes there were a few bush pigs in the mix but my testosterone was so high what can I say.

Age 25-29 made a decision to focus on myself and business and not prioritize women had LTR and a few scragglers here and there but only dime pieces, I turned all others down during this phase.

Age 30-35 I never really liked younger woman until this phase started dating 18-22 year olds left and right and was ok in the financial department.

Age 36-42 Now I date 18-39 year olds some reason I prefer 29-32 year olds don't know what it is but that's a sweet spot for me where looks have not caught up to most of them yet and personally and maturity is as good as it gets on most of them.

Somewhere in there through in 3 LTR'S longest one 5years with me spinning plates for all but Oneitus.
 

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Can you elaborate on what you mean by feeling reborn at 26?
Yes, I went to an outdoor 3 day Phish concert (The Clifford Ball) and I think I picked up crowd energy. I then went on a tour of all the Massachusetts beaches and found Plum Island and realized I wanted to live there. I started reading Carlos Casteneda Journey to Ixtlan, and Zen and the art of Motorcycle Maintenance. Then I learned the power of positive thinking and felt as though I could control women at will, just by projecting a positive aura. I then met one of the most beautiful women I ever saw in my life.

Last year I met my girlfriend, then flew to interview with my new boss and got a new job, then went back to Plum Island for the 20 year anniversary, and saw my best friend who I met at the following Phish Concert (The Great Went in 1997) and saw the same girl I met in 1996 - all in a 24 hour span, all on the 20 year anniversary of being enlightened.
 

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When I moved away from my hometown, Shkoder, to the capital city of Albania, Tirana, I had my third girlfriend, up to date, the best relationship I have ever had and I was so full of enthusiasm because of the good sex and the good times that I literally became a ***** magnet. I had sex with my university teacher when I was 21 in her own place, even had lunch there LOL had sex with a couple of girls after that even during the relationship. The aura good sex and a submissive woman gives you in your life is irreplacable and women smell that from far, far away and they want to have a piece of it. I do not have problems dealing with women, but I am a bit picky when it comes to sex, meaning if she doesn't turn me on with the way she thinks and talks about the sex, it won't cut it for me.
 

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For me it came in my early 30's, after I got divorced. Before my divorce, my exwife was the only woman I had been with so I had a lot to learn post divorce! After about 2yrs of the single
scene/dating I got pretty decent at it. I started going out 3nites a week chasing girls. Had a blast
and did some really crazy schitt.

Now that I'm in my 40's and have most of this figured out, I get more interest from women than I've ever had before.
 

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I was a late social bloomer. Got my first kiss and lay when u was almost 19. I went in with the mentality that I had nothing to loose--because I had nothing in the first place. I had accelerated growth from a white knight slate to a well-grounded man over the course of two years.
I should add that progress is an ongoing, ever-going concept. You should be learning every day and you can never truly "know it all." Anyone who claims they know it all is probably bluffing or straight out lying.
 

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When I moved away from my hometown, Shkoder, to the capital city of Albania, Tirana, I had my third girlfriend, up to date, the best relationship I have ever had and I was so full of enthusiasm because of the good sex and the good times that I literally became a ***** magnet. I had sex with my university teacher when I was 21 in her own place, even had lunch there LOL had sex with a couple of girls after that even during the relationship. The aura good sex and a submissive woman gives you in your life is irreplacable and women smell that from far, far away and they want to have a piece of it. I do not have problems dealing with women, but I am a bit picky when it comes to sex, meaning if she doesn't turn me on with the way she thinks and talks about the sex, it won't cut it for me.
I know about that aura you are talking about. It's literally all about the mindset. Have you been able to reachieve it since then?
 

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I know about that aura you are talking about. It's literally all about the mindset. Have you been able to reachieve it since then?
To tell you the truth, no. I can still get ladies with ease, but that kind of sex and the aura it gave is still not there yet. I was dumped in October 2016 and until late February, beginning of March, I was in crucial recovery. Had a very fragile mindset, picking up my pieces. Now I feel better, but still not fully recovered. Most importantly, though, I have noticed that since a good time now, I do not miss the sex with HER anymore. I had sex with another girl lately, but only three times as she had a boyfriend and started feeling guilty quickly, but the sex was oh so good cause she was dirty with the words. Made me climax without even meeting her with the way she described it.

I am trying to simulate the same effect, but I do not think it is worth it. You either have it or not, I guess.
 

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Almost right away my first sexual experience was at 13 with a girl I'm guessing was 17 (Senior in HS)... never had problems with girls, but I was raised by what I would later learn is a natural DJ, my Grandfather, after my Grandmother died when he was 62, he started dating again and this is when I went to live with him (at 11). I watched the master at work. In his 60s he was dating chicks younger than his children (much to the horror of everyone). The man literally died on the dance floor with a 45 yo women when he was 92.

Only time in my life I was knocked off center was between 1994 - 2005 (ages 27 - 38) when I was married, immediately after I was busy getting sent to Afghanistan and Iraq until 2008, but I suspect if I hadn't had life and death sh!t to worry about, I likely would have been a post divorce steaming pile of cr@p.

I was lucky really I learned from the master. Guys used to always ask me "How I did it?" I honestly didn't know, I thought I was just lucky... I just learned how to behave watching Paw Paw. It was only about 3 years ago i found this site and learned there was actually method to the madness... I remember reading the Book of Pook for the first time, again about 3 years ago thinking "Wow, everyone really doesn't know this." I remember thinking my grandfather could have written that. Before I came here if someone asked me to help them with women it would have been like trying to describe the color red to someone that was always blind. There is A LOT OF TRUTH to the idea that a natural can not teach, because he doesn't understand why what he does works... he is just who he is.
 

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At age 14 but I wasn't conscious of what I was doing. So, I really took off at 20.
 

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To tell you the truth, no. I can still get ladies with ease, but that kind of sex and the aura it gave is still not there yet. I was dumped in October 2016 and until late February, beginning of March, I was in crucial recovery. Had a very fragile mindset, picking up my pieces. Now I feel better, but still not fully recovered. Most importantly, though, I have noticed that since a good time now, I do not miss the sex with HER anymore. I had sex with another girl lately, but only three times as she had a boyfriend and started feeling guilty quickly, but the sex was oh so good cause she was dirty with the words. Made me climax without even meeting her with the way she described it.

I am trying to simulate the same effect, but I do not think it is worth it. You either have it or not, I guess.
How long were you with her for?
 

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Almost right away my first sexual experience was at 13 with a girl I'm guessing was 17 (Senior in HS)... never had problems with girls, but I was raised by what I would later learn is a natural DJ, my Grandfather, after my Grandmother died when he was 62, he started dating again and this is when I went to live with him (at 11). I watched the master at work. In his 60s he was dating chicks younger than his children (much to the horror of everyone). The man literally died on the dance floor with a 45 yo women when he was 92.

Only time in my life I was knocked off center was between 1994 - 2005 (ages 27 - 38) when I was married, immediately after I was busy getting sent to Afghanistan and Iraq until 2008, but I suspect if I hadn't had life and death sh!t to worry about, I likely would have been a post divorce steaming pile of cr@p.

I was lucky really I learned from the master. Guys used to always ask me "How I did it?" I honestly didn't know, I thought I was just lucky... I just learned how to behave watching Paw Paw. It was only about 3 years ago i found this site and learned there was actually method to the madness... I remember reading the Book of Pook for the first time, again about 3 years ago thinking "Wow, everyone really doesn't know this." I remember thinking my grandfather could have written that. Before I came here if someone asked me to help them with women it would have been like trying to describe the color red to someone that was always blind. There is A LOT OF TRUTH to the idea that a natural can not teach, because he doesn't understand why what he does works... he is just who he is.
Well you are really lucky being raised like that. Your grandpa sounds like a real stud tbh.
 

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How long were you with her for?
2 years. Literally the best time of my life. The girl was so pure when I met her, meaning the infatuation she tried for me and vice versa was really pure, although the word might sound a bit weird. The thing I miss the most is just having a person with which you can share all the silly stuff, the important stuff that happens in life. "I landed this job today" "Hey honey, we're going with the staff to have a dinner at this place" and having that person do the same. It creates a strong feeling of being two and it makes invincible.
 

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2 years. Literally the best time of my life. The girl was so pure when I met her, meaning the infatuation she tried for me and vice versa was really pure, although the word might sound a bit weird. The thing I miss the most is just having a person with which you can share all the silly stuff, the important stuff that happens in life. "I landed this job today" "Hey honey, we're going with the staff to have a dinner at this place" and having that person do the same. It creates a strong feeling of being two and it makes invincible.
Like they say, it's the small stuff that counts.
 

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I've had phases of success but nothing consistent
 

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Flourish ?

The older I am the less I seem to know when it comes to women...

Beautiful f'd up creatures....
 
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