ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Can you elaborate on what you mean by feeling reborn at 26?Age 18 - realized I could attract gorgeous women, but couldn't close. Dated 16 year old.
Age 25 - pretender but practiced
Age 26 - felt reborn
Age 27 - realized I liked women who were 10 years younger. Started dating 17 year old.
Age 30 - I was a player but had no house and women started nexting me. Dated 18 year old.
Age 35 - suddenly felt too old for 18 year olds.
Age 42 - my consulting business took off, I started dating a 19 year old HB8.
Age 46 - started working 2 jobs and started dating a 20 year old HB9.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Yes, I went to an outdoor 3 day Phish concert (The Clifford Ball) and I think I picked up crowd energy. I then went on a tour of all the Massachusetts beaches and found Plum Island and realized I wanted to live there. I started reading Carlos Casteneda Journey to Ixtlan, and Zen and the art of Motorcycle Maintenance. Then I learned the power of positive thinking and felt as though I could control women at will, just by projecting a positive aura. I then met one of the most beautiful women I ever saw in my life.Can you elaborate on what you mean by feeling reborn at 26?
I should add that progress is an ongoing, ever-going concept. You should be learning every day and you can never truly "know it all." Anyone who claims they know it all is probably bluffing or straight out lying.I was a late social bloomer. Got my first kiss and lay when u was almost 19. I went in with the mentality that I had nothing to loose--because I had nothing in the first place. I had accelerated growth from a white knight slate to a well-grounded man over the course of two years.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I know about that aura you are talking about. It's literally all about the mindset. Have you been able to reachieve it since then?When I moved away from my hometown, Shkoder, to the capital city of Albania, Tirana, I had my third girlfriend, up to date, the best relationship I have ever had and I was so full of enthusiasm because of the good sex and the good times that I literally became a ***** magnet. I had sex with my university teacher when I was 21 in her own place, even had lunch there LOL had sex with a couple of girls after that even during the relationship. The aura good sex and a submissive woman gives you in your life is irreplacable and women smell that from far, far away and they want to have a piece of it. I do not have problems dealing with women, but I am a bit picky when it comes to sex, meaning if she doesn't turn me on with the way she thinks and talks about the sex, it won't cut it for me.
To tell you the truth, no. I can still get ladies with ease, but that kind of sex and the aura it gave is still not there yet. I was dumped in October 2016 and until late February, beginning of March, I was in crucial recovery. Had a very fragile mindset, picking up my pieces. Now I feel better, but still not fully recovered. Most importantly, though, I have noticed that since a good time now, I do not miss the sex with HER anymore. I had sex with another girl lately, but only three times as she had a boyfriend and started feeling guilty quickly, but the sex was oh so good cause she was dirty with the words. Made me climax without even meeting her with the way she described it.I know about that aura you are talking about. It's literally all about the mindset. Have you been able to reachieve it since then?
How long were you with her for?To tell you the truth, no. I can still get ladies with ease, but that kind of sex and the aura it gave is still not there yet. I was dumped in October 2016 and until late February, beginning of March, I was in crucial recovery. Had a very fragile mindset, picking up my pieces. Now I feel better, but still not fully recovered. Most importantly, though, I have noticed that since a good time now, I do not miss the sex with HER anymore. I had sex with another girl lately, but only three times as she had a boyfriend and started feeling guilty quickly, but the sex was oh so good cause she was dirty with the words. Made me climax without even meeting her with the way she described it.
I am trying to simulate the same effect, but I do not think it is worth it. You either have it or not, I guess.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Well you are really lucky being raised like that. Your grandpa sounds like a real stud tbh.Almost right away my first sexual experience was at 13 with a girl I'm guessing was 17 (Senior in HS)... never had problems with girls, but I was raised by what I would later learn is a natural DJ, my Grandfather, after my Grandmother died when he was 62, he started dating again and this is when I went to live with him (at 11). I watched the master at work. In his 60s he was dating chicks younger than his children (much to the horror of everyone). The man literally died on the dance floor with a 45 yo women when he was 92.
Only time in my life I was knocked off center was between 1994 - 2005 (ages 27 - 38) when I was married, immediately after I was busy getting sent to Afghanistan and Iraq until 2008, but I suspect if I hadn't had life and death sh!t to worry about, I likely would have been a post divorce steaming pile of cr@p.
I was lucky really I learned from the master. Guys used to always ask me "How I did it?" I honestly didn't know, I thought I was just lucky... I just learned how to behave watching Paw Paw. It was only about 3 years ago i found this site and learned there was actually method to the madness... I remember reading the Book of Pook for the first time, again about 3 years ago thinking "Wow, everyone really doesn't know this." I remember thinking my grandfather could have written that. Before I came here if someone asked me to help them with women it would have been like trying to describe the color red to someone that was always blind. There is A LOT OF TRUTH to the idea that a natural can not teach, because he doesn't understand why what he does works... he is just who he is.
2 years. Literally the best time of my life. The girl was so pure when I met her, meaning the infatuation she tried for me and vice versa was really pure, although the word might sound a bit weird. The thing I miss the most is just having a person with which you can share all the silly stuff, the important stuff that happens in life. "I landed this job today" "Hey honey, we're going with the staff to have a dinner at this place" and having that person do the same. It creates a strong feeling of being two and it makes invincible.How long were you with her for?
Like they say, it's the small stuff that counts.2 years. Literally the best time of my life. The girl was so pure when I met her, meaning the infatuation she tried for me and vice versa was really pure, although the word might sound a bit weird. The thing I miss the most is just having a person with which you can share all the silly stuff, the important stuff that happens in life. "I landed this job today" "Hey honey, we're going with the staff to have a dinner at this place" and having that person do the same. It creates a strong feeling of being two and it makes invincible.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.