"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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When contemplating just giving up, do you consider growing a beard?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:
O’Rourke is hewing to a time-honored masculine tradition of growing beards to mark losses, career milestones, and departures from daily public scrutiny. Al Gore sprouted a temporary one after conceding the 2000 presidential election to George W. Bush. Upon their respective retirements from long-running television hosting gigs, Jon Stewart and David Letterman both let their facial hair grow in. For gender-conforming men, there are precious few aesthetic adjustments one can make to one’s appearance that can convey a major shift in lifestyle and self-conception. Growing a beard is one of them.
I remember True Force Loneliness prophet "Roller" Steve Hoca growing a beard when he had decided to give up - although, lo & behold, when he got some hits on Tinder, he quickly shaved it off. :rolleyes:

As for myself, when I'm back in the USA, I grow a glorious beard like Karl Marx :eek: and go a week without shaving (i.e., the non-beard area), but when I am abroad, I trim it down to "cute & fuzzy".
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BackInTheGame78

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Giving up? If people can't get laid on OLD they should just go be a hermit.

Literally being decent looking, funny, having the ability to hold a conversation and not acting desperate and needy will get you more pvssy than you could handle within a month.

And that is the truth.
 

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Literally being decent looking, funny, having the ability to hold a conversation and not acting desperate and needy will get you more pvssy than you could handle within a month.

And that is the truth.

People don't want the truth. The manosphere is full of losers looking for a quick fix for their social shortcomings. They are more interested in a secret pua technique or hiding behind some theory on being "alpha."

Let me ask you "alphas" in here ... when you go about your day... do you think... "well, am I being alpha, what would a alpha man do?" lol
 
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