"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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When CAF Doesnt Work

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What to do when CAF doesn’t work? My last date was a HB7, pretty, smart. I used CAF at her, but she was always quiet and kind, I feel that I couldn’t get any result doing that. I think I shouldn’t call her because she won’t go out with me again. I would like to hear your opinions and advices, my friends.
Giovanni
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Maybe, you did too much.
 
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bro sometimes this don juan stuff just does not work on certain girls.. and trust me.. those are the chickas that u DO NOT wanna be with.. so be glad that u can cross that girl off ur list. good luck bro
 
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C+F should be used on bitc-hy hot girls..doing it on nice cute or insecure girls will only make them think you're an as5hole and not like you
 
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Tear Gas said:
C+F should be used on bitc-hy hot girls..doing it on nice cute or insecure girls will only make them think you're an as5hole and not like you
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I think you're confusing c/f with negging.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Every girl is a different lock, the basics may remain the same, but the details don't. Don't expect the same thing to work all the time.

DJ tactics are more like guidelines, ****y and funny all the time can make you look like an ass-hole.
 
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Brians_600rr said:
bro sometimes this don juan stuff just does not work on certain girls.. and trust me.. those are the chickas that u DO NOT wanna be with.. so be glad that u can cross that girl off ur list. good luck bro
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This works on all girls... old girls, young girls, skinny girls, fat girls, rich girls, poor girls, and just plain dirty slvts.

It's how you use your game!
 
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giovannikast said:
Hi
My friends,
What to do when CAF doesn’t work? My last date was a HB7, pretty, smart. I used CAF at her, but she was always quiet and kind, I feel that I couldn’t get any result doing that. I think I shouldn’t call her because she won’t go out with me again.
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Change tactics then. If she likes quiet guys who don't touch her, then that's what you have to do. You have to adapt to your environment like a animal in the wild.

Reminds me of a college class when the student said to the prof: I like to use all the numbers you give me in the question, even if they are irrelevant.
 
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Why should we have to adapt to a girl? If she doesn't fit our personality we just change for her instead of acting the way we really are? That doesn't make since. If you aren't quiet then don't adapt to a girl that doesn't like guys who aren't quiet. That's what seems to make since to me right now.
 
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JMooney5115 said:
Why should we have to adapt to a girl? If she doesn't fit our personality we just change for her instead of acting the way we really are? That doesn't make since. If you aren't quiet then don't adapt to a girl that doesn't like guys who aren't quiet. That's what seems to make since to me right now.
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It's the difference between being the qualifier or being the one being qualified.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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JMooney5115 said:
Why should we have to adapt to a girl? If she doesn't fit our personality we just change for her instead of acting the way we really are?
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You have to pay attention to what she likes, what she identifies with. Otherwise its a recipe for disaster.
 
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