"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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When approaches is not an option. Then What?

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There are some places mostly in small cities where approaching a woman for the purpose of fcking her , is considered to be a big NO. In these kind of situations you need to close the deal only through friends and contacts but what if you know nobody ?
I mean when you are there for vacation , it's kinda hard to socialise if you don't share similar activities with them and this also requires long time .

How would your proceed in this kind of situation when you have limited time ??
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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A) don't vacation in the middle of bumfvck nowhereistan (unless you don't really care about picking up girls there)

B) if you're on vacation nobody can blame you for not being 100% with the local culture

C) indirect approach, the sort of thing roosh v talks about in "day bang"
 
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Do it anyway.

Unless someone is going to blow your brains out for talking to a random woman, I don't know what you are afraid of.
 
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Do you think that these women will care if a true alpha male would hit on them?

A true alpha would just do what the f*ck he wants.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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True Forced Loneliness legend "Roller" Steve Hoca says that trying to game the system by moving to a small town is a big mistake, and will ultimately fail. If there is one thing that small town sexually frustrated men hate more than being celibate with their own town's women choosing other locals, it's non-locals trying to take them. This was wonderfully portrayed in the movie "An Officer and a Gentleman" in which the officer candidates were confronted by a gang of local men for parading around with their women.
 
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Calum Tingham said:
Where are these cities you mentioned?
Syria?

Lol...

I can't imagine any city where you're "not allowed" to approach women. I think it's in your head.
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i think he means that approach is frowned upon is local culture, which describes most cultures I think
 
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Calum Tingham said:
Where are these cities you mentioned?
Syria?

Lol...

I can't imagine any city where you're "not allowed" to approach women. I think it's in your head.
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No matter where you are , big cities have a different culture than small cities (<10.000 people) considering approaches .
In these small cities , people are more conserved than those in a big city . Also it's more easier to get a bad name because they are not as open to new people as in the big cities .

And i didn't said it wasn't allowed but you simply can't do it if you want to not get labelled as a creep,thirsty,weird etc.


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A) don't vacation in the middle of bumfvck nowhereistan (unless you don't really care about picking up girls there)

B) if you're on vacation nobody can blame you for not being 100% with the local culture

C) indirect approach, the sort of thing roosh v talks about in "day bang"
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I'm talking about my old town that i used to live 8 years ago . I go once or twice almost every year because i have my family there and some old friends which have no contact with any chick at all .

What is this indirect approach? Can you give me an example?
 
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Jetleg said:
Do you think that these women will care if a true alpha male would hit on them?

A true alpha would just do what the f*ck he wants.
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I am alpha .For the last 2 years, everybody in my circle is saying that . But the women here have different culture and you can't hit on them with the same mindset as you do in a different country . Plus they have a lot of complex issues but they are unbelievably hot.
 
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What is this indirect approach? Can you give me an example?
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Direct approach: "hello, you're just so pretty I just had to meet you, I'm devil, what's your name?"

Indirect approach: "hey, can you give me some directions, I'm lost"
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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NSX-R said:
And i didn't said it wasn't allowed but you simply can't do it if you want to not get labelled as a creep,thirsty,weird etc.
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If you're worried about being labelled as a creep, you're not living your life properly.

Your life is not defined by what other people say about you, it's defined by what you say about you.
 
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