"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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When approaches is not an option. Then What?

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There are some places mostly in small cities where approaching a woman for the purpose of fcking her , is considered to be a big NO. In these kind of situations you need to close the deal only through friends and contacts but what if you know nobody ?
I mean when you are there for vacation , it's kinda hard to socialise if you don't share similar activities with them and this also requires long time .

How would your proceed in this kind of situation when you have limited time ??
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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A) don't vacation in the middle of bumfvck nowhereistan (unless you don't really care about picking up girls there)

B) if you're on vacation nobody can blame you for not being 100% with the local culture

C) indirect approach, the sort of thing roosh v talks about in "day bang"
 

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Do it anyway.

Unless someone is going to blow your brains out for talking to a random woman, I don't know what you are afraid of.
 

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Do you think that these women will care if a true alpha male would hit on them?

A true alpha would just do what the f*ck he wants.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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True Forced Loneliness legend "Roller" Steve Hoca says that trying to game the system by moving to a small town is a big mistake, and will ultimately fail. If there is one thing that small town sexually frustrated men hate more than being celibate with their own town's women choosing other locals, it's non-locals trying to take them. This was wonderfully portrayed in the movie "An Officer and a Gentleman" in which the officer candidates were confronted by a gang of local men for parading around with their women.
 

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Where are these cities you mentioned?
Syria?

Lol...

I can't imagine any city where you're "not allowed" to approach women. I think it's in your head.
i think he means that approach is frowned upon is local culture, which describes most cultures I think
 

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Where are these cities you mentioned?
Syria?

Lol...

I can't imagine any city where you're "not allowed" to approach women. I think it's in your head.
No matter where you are , big cities have a different culture than small cities (<10.000 people) considering approaches .
In these small cities , people are more conserved than those in a big city . Also it's more easier to get a bad name because they are not as open to new people as in the big cities .

And i didn't said it wasn't allowed but you simply can't do it if you want to not get labelled as a creep,thirsty,weird etc.


A) don't vacation in the middle of bumfvck nowhereistan (unless you don't really care about picking up girls there)

B) if you're on vacation nobody can blame you for not being 100% with the local culture

C) indirect approach, the sort of thing roosh v talks about in "day bang"
I'm talking about my old town that i used to live 8 years ago . I go once or twice almost every year because i have my family there and some old friends which have no contact with any chick at all .

What is this indirect approach? Can you give me an example?
 

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Do you think that these women will care if a true alpha male would hit on them?

A true alpha would just do what the f*ck he wants.
I am alpha .For the last 2 years, everybody in my circle is saying that . But the women here have different culture and you can't hit on them with the same mindset as you do in a different country . Plus they have a lot of complex issues but they are unbelievably hot.
 

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What is this indirect approach? Can you give me an example?
Direct approach: "hello, you're just so pretty I just had to meet you, I'm devil, what's your name?"

Indirect approach: "hey, can you give me some directions, I'm lost"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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And i didn't said it wasn't allowed but you simply can't do it if you want to not get labelled as a creep,thirsty,weird etc.
If you're worried about being labelled as a creep, you're not living your life properly.

Your life is not defined by what other people say about you, it's defined by what you say about you.
 
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