"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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When approaches is not an option. Then What?

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There are some places mostly in small cities where approaching a woman for the purpose of fcking her , is considered to be a big NO. In these kind of situations you need to close the deal only through friends and contacts but what if you know nobody ?
I mean when you are there for vacation , it's kinda hard to socialise if you don't share similar activities with them and this also requires long time .

How would your proceed in this kind of situation when you have limited time ??
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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A) don't vacation in the middle of bumfvck nowhereistan (unless you don't really care about picking up girls there)

B) if you're on vacation nobody can blame you for not being 100% with the local culture

C) indirect approach, the sort of thing roosh v talks about in "day bang"
 
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Do it anyway.

Unless someone is going to blow your brains out for talking to a random woman, I don't know what you are afraid of.
 
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Do you think that these women will care if a true alpha male would hit on them?

A true alpha would just do what the f*ck he wants.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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True Forced Loneliness legend "Roller" Steve Hoca says that trying to game the system by moving to a small town is a big mistake, and will ultimately fail. If there is one thing that small town sexually frustrated men hate more than being celibate with their own town's women choosing other locals, it's non-locals trying to take them. This was wonderfully portrayed in the movie "An Officer and a Gentleman" in which the officer candidates were confronted by a gang of local men for parading around with their women.
 
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Calum Tingham said:
Where are these cities you mentioned?
Syria?

Lol...

I can't imagine any city where you're "not allowed" to approach women. I think it's in your head.
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i think he means that approach is frowned upon is local culture, which describes most cultures I think
 
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Calum Tingham said:
Where are these cities you mentioned?
Syria?

Lol...

I can't imagine any city where you're "not allowed" to approach women. I think it's in your head.
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No matter where you are , big cities have a different culture than small cities (<10.000 people) considering approaches .
In these small cities , people are more conserved than those in a big city . Also it's more easier to get a bad name because they are not as open to new people as in the big cities .

And i didn't said it wasn't allowed but you simply can't do it if you want to not get labelled as a creep,thirsty,weird etc.


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A) don't vacation in the middle of bumfvck nowhereistan (unless you don't really care about picking up girls there)

B) if you're on vacation nobody can blame you for not being 100% with the local culture

C) indirect approach, the sort of thing roosh v talks about in "day bang"
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I'm talking about my old town that i used to live 8 years ago . I go once or twice almost every year because i have my family there and some old friends which have no contact with any chick at all .

What is this indirect approach? Can you give me an example?
 
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Jetleg said:
Do you think that these women will care if a true alpha male would hit on them?

A true alpha would just do what the f*ck he wants.
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I am alpha .For the last 2 years, everybody in my circle is saying that . But the women here have different culture and you can't hit on them with the same mindset as you do in a different country . Plus they have a lot of complex issues but they are unbelievably hot.
 
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What is this indirect approach? Can you give me an example?
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Direct approach: "hello, you're just so pretty I just had to meet you, I'm devil, what's your name?"

Indirect approach: "hey, can you give me some directions, I'm lost"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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NSX-R said:
And i didn't said it wasn't allowed but you simply can't do it if you want to not get labelled as a creep,thirsty,weird etc.
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If you're worried about being labelled as a creep, you're not living your life properly.

Your life is not defined by what other people say about you, it's defined by what you say about you.
 
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