"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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When AFCs get violent...

Flabbergasped?

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vp-Eq6QGSfI

I stumbled upon this video, and as a European-born black guy I am both appalled at the message it sends and at the dudes that make this kind of thing happen.

Some guys have no game, and (especially in groups) and like to approach women like clowns, super aggressive and predatory when (as PUAs know), you're not supposed to do in daygame. Suddenly though, these clowns are meant to represent all black guys, so much so that these chicks are crossing the street?

When I was younger, I got my camera stolen by an Asian guy. I was really pissed. Should I not lend things to Asian people?

If someone is going to stereotype, that's fine, but to think that people would not walk on the same street as me because some wannabe thug approached like a sex offender is disgusting. Reread my previous sentence and think about how that reflects on America.

It was worse when I was AFC, but I still run into sets where girls cower/hide behind their friends as I walk towards them. I've learned to just write it off and keep approaching, but imagine someone with less mental fortitude. Think about how much self-loathing they would have because they were black and felt the repercussions of dumb stereotyping.

I can't say I've ever seen this kind of widespread hate/paranoia towards a gender of a certain race, except for Middle Eastern men after 9/11.

One more thing, http://i143.photobucket.com/albums/r136/Romulus32/ibtl.gif
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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how does putting an "in before the lock" picture make sense when you created the damn thread? so pointless
 
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