"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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When AFCs get violent...

Flabbergasped?

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vp-Eq6QGSfI

I stumbled upon this video, and as a European-born black guy I am both appalled at the message it sends and at the dudes that make this kind of thing happen.

Some guys have no game, and (especially in groups) and like to approach women like clowns, super aggressive and predatory when (as PUAs know), you're not supposed to do in daygame. Suddenly though, these clowns are meant to represent all black guys, so much so that these chicks are crossing the street?

When I was younger, I got my camera stolen by an Asian guy. I was really pissed. Should I not lend things to Asian people?

If someone is going to stereotype, that's fine, but to think that people would not walk on the same street as me because some wannabe thug approached like a sex offender is disgusting. Reread my previous sentence and think about how that reflects on America.

It was worse when I was AFC, but I still run into sets where girls cower/hide behind their friends as I walk towards them. I've learned to just write it off and keep approaching, but imagine someone with less mental fortitude. Think about how much self-loathing they would have because they were black and felt the repercussions of dumb stereotyping.

I can't say I've ever seen this kind of widespread hate/paranoia towards a gender of a certain race, except for Middle Eastern men after 9/11.

One more thing, http://i143.photobucket.com/albums/r136/Romulus32/ibtl.gif
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Desert Fox

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how does putting an "in before the lock" picture make sense when you created the damn thread? so pointless
 
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