"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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When AFCs get violent...

Flabbergasped?

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vp-Eq6QGSfI

I stumbled upon this video, and as a European-born black guy I am both appalled at the message it sends and at the dudes that make this kind of thing happen.

Some guys have no game, and (especially in groups) and like to approach women like clowns, super aggressive and predatory when (as PUAs know), you're not supposed to do in daygame. Suddenly though, these clowns are meant to represent all black guys, so much so that these chicks are crossing the street?

When I was younger, I got my camera stolen by an Asian guy. I was really pissed. Should I not lend things to Asian people?

If someone is going to stereotype, that's fine, but to think that people would not walk on the same street as me because some wannabe thug approached like a sex offender is disgusting. Reread my previous sentence and think about how that reflects on America.

It was worse when I was AFC, but I still run into sets where girls cower/hide behind their friends as I walk towards them. I've learned to just write it off and keep approaching, but imagine someone with less mental fortitude. Think about how much self-loathing they would have because they were black and felt the repercussions of dumb stereotyping.

I can't say I've ever seen this kind of widespread hate/paranoia towards a gender of a certain race, except for Middle Eastern men after 9/11.

One more thing, http://i143.photobucket.com/albums/r136/Romulus32/ibtl.gif
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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how does putting an "in before the lock" picture make sense when you created the damn thread? so pointless
 
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