"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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When AFCs get violent...

Flabbergasped?

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vp-Eq6QGSfI

I stumbled upon this video, and as a European-born black guy I am both appalled at the message it sends and at the dudes that make this kind of thing happen.

Some guys have no game, and (especially in groups) and like to approach women like clowns, super aggressive and predatory when (as PUAs know), you're not supposed to do in daygame. Suddenly though, these clowns are meant to represent all black guys, so much so that these chicks are crossing the street?

When I was younger, I got my camera stolen by an Asian guy. I was really pissed. Should I not lend things to Asian people?

If someone is going to stereotype, that's fine, but to think that people would not walk on the same street as me because some wannabe thug approached like a sex offender is disgusting. Reread my previous sentence and think about how that reflects on America.

It was worse when I was AFC, but I still run into sets where girls cower/hide behind their friends as I walk towards them. I've learned to just write it off and keep approaching, but imagine someone with less mental fortitude. Think about how much self-loathing they would have because they were black and felt the repercussions of dumb stereotyping.

I can't say I've ever seen this kind of widespread hate/paranoia towards a gender of a certain race, except for Middle Eastern men after 9/11.

One more thing, http://i143.photobucket.com/albums/r136/Romulus32/ibtl.gif
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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how does putting an "in before the lock" picture make sense when you created the damn thread? so pointless
 
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