"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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When a women ask's you what your doing on the weekend ?

Thechamp

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When a women Ask's you what you doing on the week end during conversation , is it a ioi , or just chit chat ?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Thechamp

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Well I got asked it twice in two days , one from a women who's married that comes in my work , I hope she wasn't giving me a hint .
 

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It's a great opportunity to be playful and tease them.. - tell her you're going to be robbing banks and you're looking for a getaway driver and ask her if she's interested in the position.. make her qualify and tell her she better not suck at driving etc.. be playful..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This happens when you are sitting at the bar with a waitress or bartender that likes you. They'll say "So I'm dropping my kids off with their dad and I have nothing to do all weekend but lay by the pool..... nosirree.... nooooothing todo. So what are your plans?" They often do it in a subtle enough way that you might miss it. They are masters at tactful flirting, having learned by counterexample what not to do by orbiters.

Try this line in that situation: "We should get together".
 

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most women ask it to see if you got a life
 

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I normally answer not much and then very quickly tell them about three things I'm doing. Then sometimes they give u that you r too busy for me **** test. Which I normally answer by saying I always make time for people who are worth it, tilt my head to one side and look at her quizzically
 
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