"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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When a women ask's you what your doing on the weekend ?

Thechamp

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When a women Ask's you what you doing on the week end during conversation , is it a ioi , or just chit chat ?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Thechamp

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Well I got asked it twice in two days , one from a women who's married that comes in my work , I hope she wasn't giving me a hint .
 

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It's a great opportunity to be playful and tease them.. - tell her you're going to be robbing banks and you're looking for a getaway driver and ask her if she's interested in the position.. make her qualify and tell her she better not suck at driving etc.. be playful..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This happens when you are sitting at the bar with a waitress or bartender that likes you. They'll say "So I'm dropping my kids off with their dad and I have nothing to do all weekend but lay by the pool..... nosirree.... nooooothing todo. So what are your plans?" They often do it in a subtle enough way that you might miss it. They are masters at tactful flirting, having learned by counterexample what not to do by orbiters.

Try this line in that situation: "We should get together".
 

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most women ask it to see if you got a life
 

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I normally answer not much and then very quickly tell them about three things I'm doing. Then sometimes they give u that you r too busy for me **** test. Which I normally answer by saying I always make time for people who are worth it, tilt my head to one side and look at her quizzically
 
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