"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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When a women ask's you what your doing on the weekend ?

Thechamp

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When a women Ask's you what you doing on the week end during conversation , is it a ioi , or just chit chat ?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Thechamp

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Well I got asked it twice in two days , one from a women who's married that comes in my work , I hope she wasn't giving me a hint .
 

Fireballs

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It's a great opportunity to be playful and tease them.. - tell her you're going to be robbing banks and you're looking for a getaway driver and ask her if she's interested in the position.. make her qualify and tell her she better not suck at driving etc.. be playful..
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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This happens when you are sitting at the bar with a waitress or bartender that likes you. They'll say "So I'm dropping my kids off with their dad and I have nothing to do all weekend but lay by the pool..... nosirree.... nooooothing todo. So what are your plans?" They often do it in a subtle enough way that you might miss it. They are masters at tactful flirting, having learned by counterexample what not to do by orbiters.

Try this line in that situation: "We should get together".
 

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most women ask it to see if you got a life
 

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I normally answer not much and then very quickly tell them about three things I'm doing. Then sometimes they give u that you r too busy for me **** test. Which I normally answer by saying I always make time for people who are worth it, tilt my head to one side and look at her quizzically
 
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