When a Woman Tells You You're Handsome, How Do You Interpret It?

[Frank2500]

I thought I'd start this threat in light of the interesting discussion earlier in terms of the whole "hot" vs. "cute" thing. So I was curious...if a woman tells you that you're very handsome, do you interpret that as meaning that you're "hot," or that you're "cute?"

Also, in terms of the DJ Bible, I haven't had a chance to read it, since I'm a newbie. Could someone please post a link for me to check it out?

 

[Cod3r]

Is this woman Japanese ??

It's in their culture to use 'handsome' for 'hot'


-Cod3r

 

[Frank2500]

Re:

Ha, ha, ha. Good question, although funny. No, one who called me handsome was a White American lady; another White American lady called me "pretty cute" and then another, she looked Hispanic/biracial, met me at a bar in a club and whispered in my ear, "You're very handsome."

 

[mrRuckus]

do you interpret that as meaning that you're "hot," or that you're "cute?"

Neither you ignore it and continue on trying to touch her boobs.

 

[pvf94]

Here's that link you wanted frank...

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/

 

[Badmannaz]

girls will say it like
handsome just means "well groomed"
but it could also mean OMG HE IS SO HOT

:flowers:

 

[musclyjerk]

Personally I would assume it means the girl who finds you attractive actually has a vocabulary, is more intelligent than most and actually respects you.

Oh.. and likes you, a lot.

However given it came from the mouth of a female, it could mean a million and one different things, good or bad!

The Muscly Jerk

 

[Styles]

Thank you works pretty well

 

[PRMoon]

What the hell! Who cares "how to interpret" it? If she tells you you're hansome there's only one thing to do, and that's throw down your game. It's f*cking show time and you're on center stage! Do you get me?! That hot vs cute thing was retarded anyway. They're synonomus terms so they mean exactly the same thing. If a girl tells me I'm hot, I'm cute, I'm hansome, I'm attractive, I'm gorgeous, I'm breath taking, I'm show stopping etc etc, THEY ARE SAYING EXACTLY THE SAME THING. They like how I look physically and now it's up to me to game them using my skills as a player.

 

[Kev07]

for men ---- for women
pretty/cute ---- cute
hot/i'd hit it ---- hot
beautiful ---- handsome(i guess?)

i'd call a girl cute if she has a good looking face, but not really trying to get in her pants anymore than the next girl.

i'd say hot if it was a girl i was trying to get into her pants

and beautiful i use with more respect and lots of beauty.

 

[dynamicallyidle]

Ha, ha, ha. Good question, although funny. No, one who called me handsome was a White American lady; another White American lady called me "pretty cute" and then another, she looked Hispanic/biracial, met me at a bar in a club and whispered in my ear, "You're very handsome."

what do you think these statements mean, einstein? grow a brain

 

[Jariel]

DON'T INTERPRET IT AT ALL!

Analysing and intellectualizing is for nerds. This took me a long time to get my head around, but you need to chill out and just accept things like this at face value. She paid you a compliment, that's good. Nothing more needs to be said.

 

[PRMoon]

What the hell! Who cares "how to interpret" it? If she tells you you're hansome there's only one thing to do, and that's throw down your game. It's f*cking show time and you're on center stage! Do you get me?! That hot vs cute thing was retarded anyway. They're synonomus terms so they mean exactly the same thing. If a girl tells me I'm hot, I'm cute, I'm hansome, I'm attractive, I'm gorgeous, I'm breath taking, I'm show stopping etc etc, THEY ARE SAYING EXACTLY THE SAME THING. They like how I look physically and now it's up to me to game them using my skills as a player.

DON'T INTERPRET IT AT ALL!

Analysing and intellectualizing is for nerds. This took me a long time to get my head around, but you need to chill out and just accept things like this at face value. She paid you a compliment, that's good. Nothing more needs to be said.

Good thing the Common Sense Calvery showed up when it did eh?

 

[Charm]

BAD RESPONSES:
Her: Wow, your very handsome
Me: Gee, Thanks? (Insecure)

BETTER RESPONSE:
Her: Your very handsome
Me: I'm so much more. What's your name?

BAD RESPONSE:
Her: Your very handsome
Me: So are you.. I Mean beautiful.. err fvck
Her: (looks at you weird)

BETTER C&F RESPONSE
Her: Your very handsome
Me: I'm Charm (said smiling and looking into her eyes). I'll let you get away with two more compliments and then i'm resetting your points.

 

[specialed]

i see handsome as being "well put together" which includes looks, way i dress, and carry myself.

period.

 

[rrrrr]

i think it's a good sign, you shouldn't waste time analyzing it.