"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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When a Woman says......

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I was listening to Howard Stern at work the other day and someone sent him an email from a site (i forget) of what a woman really means when she describes herself....here's a few, i forgot the majority of them cus my boss was talking to me about random obscure s***.

When a woman says she's Adventurous is means she likes to f*** lots of guys

When a woman says she's Athletic it means she has no boobs

When a woman says she's Fun it means shes annoying

When a woman says she's Voluptuous.....I think you know this one

I was wondering if anyone could add to this list
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LuvMyArmyMan

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thats so untrue. why do men think that just because a woman is smart and has a good personality that she cant be good-looking as well? Well i guess it just goes for the same as men. Either they're good-looking a-holes that are shallow and conceited or fat and ugly nice guys. How does that make you feel?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by LuvMyArmyMan
thats so untrue. why do men think that just because a woman is smart and has a good personality that she cant be good-looking as well? Well i guess it just goes for the same as men. Either they're good-looking a-holes that are shallow and conceited or fat and ugly nice guys. How does that make you feel?
Actually, I think that what was being used in this thread is commonly known as sarcasm and satire. If either of these offends you, then so be it. I know several good-looking females who are rather intelligent. Oh, and your 'insults' are empty - this is the internet... if you don't like something, there's a little red X at the top right of your screen... :rolleyes:
 

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Originally posted by LuvMyArmyMan
thats so untrue. why do men think that just because a woman is smart and has a good personality that she cant be good-looking as well? Well i guess it just goes for the same as men. Either they're good-looking a-holes that are shallow and conceited or fat and ugly nice guys. How does that make you feel?
what does a women mean when she says this?:p
 

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Originally posted by LuvMyArmyMan
thats so untrue. why do men think that just because a woman is smart and has a good personality that she cant be good-looking as well? Well i guess it just goes for the same as men. Either they're good-looking a-holes that are shallow and conceited or fat and ugly nice guys. How does that make you feel?
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Just go and look at a couple of profiles with pictures at any dating website and you will see that usually fat or ugly women will put "good personality" as their first quality because they don't have much to offer - they let guys know that if they pick them, it would be easy dating them.

HB often describe what they do and what they want, and not their personality because they already know they are in demand and looks are more important and the picture speaks for itself.

Alot of AFC guys will put strong personality characters as well such as "loyal guy who will treat you good" as oppose to an Alpha man who says little about himself but rather more about what he does and want and let his picture do the talking.

and I am sorry that this thread is not politically correct, after all beauty is on the inside ( but that is usually what ugly people say no? hahaha)
 

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Originally posted by LuvMyArmyMan
thats so untrue. why do men think that just because a woman is smart and has a good personality that she cant be good-looking as well? Well i guess it just goes for the same as men. Either they're good-looking a-holes that are shallow and conceited or fat and ugly nice guys. How does that make you feel?
Based on every post of yours that I've seen this site seems to upset you. So why are you here?
 

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It doenst upset me. When you say it "upsets" me, to me that means i'm weak and frail, etc. I just think guys have the wrong idea about women and i find that to be so true, even these so-called DJs. I'm just here to offer the different perspective, to get another idea into these boy's minds.

BTW, how am i supposed to know its a joke or that its satrical or sarcastic? whatever happened to "haha" or "jk" when its supposed to be a joke or be funny?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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When a woman says she is confident she is not

When a woman says she is outgoing, you're in for a loner.

When a woman says she is curvy, she is fat.

When a woman says she is earthbound, she is boring.

When a woman says she like honest, intelligent, fun men, she's been burned recently.

When a woman says she is kinky in bed, call her for some adventure.

When a woman does not say she is intelligent, outgoing, fun etc... I call... Provided the picture is good.
 

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Originally posted by captn caveman
When a woman does not say she is intelligent, outgoing, fun etc... I call... Provided the picture is good.
That's actually NOT a bad idea. The ones who HAVE it don't have to sit there and tell everyone they have it.
 
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