"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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When a Woman says......

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I was listening to Howard Stern at work the other day and someone sent him an email from a site (i forget) of what a woman really means when she describes herself....here's a few, i forgot the majority of them cus my boss was talking to me about random obscure s***.

When a woman says she's Adventurous is means she likes to f*** lots of guys

When a woman says she's Athletic it means she has no boobs

When a woman says she's Fun it means shes annoying

When a woman says she's Voluptuous.....I think you know this one

I was wondering if anyone could add to this list
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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LuvMyArmyMan

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thats so untrue. why do men think that just because a woman is smart and has a good personality that she cant be good-looking as well? Well i guess it just goes for the same as men. Either they're good-looking a-holes that are shallow and conceited or fat and ugly nice guys. How does that make you feel?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by LuvMyArmyMan
thats so untrue. why do men think that just because a woman is smart and has a good personality that she cant be good-looking as well? Well i guess it just goes for the same as men. Either they're good-looking a-holes that are shallow and conceited or fat and ugly nice guys. How does that make you feel?
Actually, I think that what was being used in this thread is commonly known as sarcasm and satire. If either of these offends you, then so be it. I know several good-looking females who are rather intelligent. Oh, and your 'insults' are empty - this is the internet... if you don't like something, there's a little red X at the top right of your screen... :rolleyes:
 

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Originally posted by LuvMyArmyMan
thats so untrue. why do men think that just because a woman is smart and has a good personality that she cant be good-looking as well? Well i guess it just goes for the same as men. Either they're good-looking a-holes that are shallow and conceited or fat and ugly nice guys. How does that make you feel?
what does a women mean when she says this?:p
 

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Originally posted by LuvMyArmyMan
thats so untrue. why do men think that just because a woman is smart and has a good personality that she cant be good-looking as well? Well i guess it just goes for the same as men. Either they're good-looking a-holes that are shallow and conceited or fat and ugly nice guys. How does that make you feel?
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Just go and look at a couple of profiles with pictures at any dating website and you will see that usually fat or ugly women will put "good personality" as their first quality because they don't have much to offer - they let guys know that if they pick them, it would be easy dating them.

HB often describe what they do and what they want, and not their personality because they already know they are in demand and looks are more important and the picture speaks for itself.

Alot of AFC guys will put strong personality characters as well such as "loyal guy who will treat you good" as oppose to an Alpha man who says little about himself but rather more about what he does and want and let his picture do the talking.

and I am sorry that this thread is not politically correct, after all beauty is on the inside ( but that is usually what ugly people say no? hahaha)
 

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Originally posted by LuvMyArmyMan
thats so untrue. why do men think that just because a woman is smart and has a good personality that she cant be good-looking as well? Well i guess it just goes for the same as men. Either they're good-looking a-holes that are shallow and conceited or fat and ugly nice guys. How does that make you feel?
Based on every post of yours that I've seen this site seems to upset you. So why are you here?
 

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It doenst upset me. When you say it "upsets" me, to me that means i'm weak and frail, etc. I just think guys have the wrong idea about women and i find that to be so true, even these so-called DJs. I'm just here to offer the different perspective, to get another idea into these boy's minds.

BTW, how am i supposed to know its a joke or that its satrical or sarcastic? whatever happened to "haha" or "jk" when its supposed to be a joke or be funny?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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When a woman says she is confident she is not

When a woman says she is outgoing, you're in for a loner.

When a woman says she is curvy, she is fat.

When a woman says she is earthbound, she is boring.

When a woman says she like honest, intelligent, fun men, she's been burned recently.

When a woman says she is kinky in bed, call her for some adventure.

When a woman does not say she is intelligent, outgoing, fun etc... I call... Provided the picture is good.
 

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Originally posted by captn caveman
When a woman does not say she is intelligent, outgoing, fun etc... I call... Provided the picture is good.
That's actually NOT a bad idea. The ones who HAVE it don't have to sit there and tell everyone they have it.
 
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