Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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When a woman say "I am angry person" is it a magor red flag?

evan12

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or do they say it to show we cant walk over them easily. she look normal woman except she told me a couple of times she is angry person .
has any one have experience with this ?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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how she is around you? remember the ignore what she says, consider how she act, if she is a annoying b!tch then why spend time on her?
 

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Dear Evan,
Some one who says "I am angry person" is trying to bully you,maybe I would ignore it once,should it happen again I would just remember her as a receding form in my rear vision mirror...You don't have to tolerate intimidating behaviour...In this Country if the tables were reversed and you said that to her,you could get an apprehended violence order filed on you in the Family (read Feminazi)Court.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I agree with samspade 100%. Any woman who says that seriously is most definitely going to open up a can of whoop-ass on you real soon. It's a gigantic red flag. If I heard that I would get out of Dodge immediately.
 

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evan12 said:
or do they say it to show we cant walk over them easily. she look normal woman except she told me a couple of times she is angry person .
has any one have experience with this ?
Nope, no experience with it, however common sense applies here.

Depends what you want from her.

If you're considering a relationship, then I would view that as a pretty screwball thing to say. Screams low class, manipulative bubblehead.

If it's just for the sake of spurt, then some demonic bed action might be kind of fun.

SH
 

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She could be trying to ease you in to her craziness, because she knows it going to come out eventually. A "setting the expectations" sort of thing. So that way, when you come home one day late from work, and see all your clothes strewn out on the lawn, instead of raising all holey hell, you'll say to yourself: "eh...she's just an angry person. I'll go sweet talk her and calm her down, then we can have a nice dinner."

She could also be trying to turn you into Captain save a ho. Every night, while laying in bed, you could be her therapist and talk about her feelings, and make excuses for why she slashed your tires that morning.

Either way, that's a weird thing to tell someone.

Whatever you decide to do, you've been warned....by her.
 

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She has a troubled past. She is just warning you. I would pass on this one.

I have been with 2girls that said similar things as this one has. I hung out for a while and what they said came true.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Are you some little shrimp? She might set you up with the cops, but she aint gonna whup ya.
 

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This could mean a lot of things.

All of them bad.

I suggest the Amityville Horror strategy.

(geetttttttt oooooooouuuuuuuuuuuuttttttttttttttttt!)
 

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Alvafe said:
how she is around you? remember the ignore what she says, consider how she act, if she is a annoying b!tch then why spend time on her?
She is normal, and in fact she is nice girl , when I asked her again what does she mean , she said she meant she is emotional.
she act very respectfully and sexually she is submissive , is there any way to check her true nature ? once I became mean to her and she start crying which support the idea that she is on submissive side more than aggressive .
 

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Howiestern said:
She has a troubled past. She is just warning you. I would pass on this one.

I have been with 2girls that said similar things as this one has. I hung out for a while and what they said came true.
was they normal and bacame crazy later or that happened from the beginning, how can I trigger some thing that will show her true nature early ?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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from experience this is a sign of trouble. Her friends probably know more than you about this. Be forewarned!
 
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