"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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When a woman say "I am angry person" is it a magor red flag?

evan12

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or do they say it to show we cant walk over them easily. she look normal woman except she told me a couple of times she is angry person .
has any one have experience with this ?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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how she is around you? remember the ignore what she says, consider how she act, if she is a annoying b!tch then why spend time on her?
 

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Dear Evan,
Some one who says "I am angry person" is trying to bully you,maybe I would ignore it once,should it happen again I would just remember her as a receding form in my rear vision mirror...You don't have to tolerate intimidating behaviour...In this Country if the tables were reversed and you said that to her,you could get an apprehended violence order filed on you in the Family (read Feminazi)Court.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I agree with samspade 100%. Any woman who says that seriously is most definitely going to open up a can of whoop-ass on you real soon. It's a gigantic red flag. If I heard that I would get out of Dodge immediately.
 

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evan12 said:
or do they say it to show we cant walk over them easily. she look normal woman except she told me a couple of times she is angry person .
has any one have experience with this ?
Nope, no experience with it, however common sense applies here.

Depends what you want from her.

If you're considering a relationship, then I would view that as a pretty screwball thing to say. Screams low class, manipulative bubblehead.

If it's just for the sake of spurt, then some demonic bed action might be kind of fun.

SH
 

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She could be trying to ease you in to her craziness, because she knows it going to come out eventually. A "setting the expectations" sort of thing. So that way, when you come home one day late from work, and see all your clothes strewn out on the lawn, instead of raising all holey hell, you'll say to yourself: "eh...she's just an angry person. I'll go sweet talk her and calm her down, then we can have a nice dinner."

She could also be trying to turn you into Captain save a ho. Every night, while laying in bed, you could be her therapist and talk about her feelings, and make excuses for why she slashed your tires that morning.

Either way, that's a weird thing to tell someone.

Whatever you decide to do, you've been warned....by her.
 

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She has a troubled past. She is just warning you. I would pass on this one.

I have been with 2girls that said similar things as this one has. I hung out for a while and what they said came true.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Are you some little shrimp? She might set you up with the cops, but she aint gonna whup ya.
 

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This could mean a lot of things.

All of them bad.

I suggest the Amityville Horror strategy.

(geetttttttt oooooooouuuuuuuuuuuuttttttttttttttttt!)
 

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Alvafe said:
how she is around you? remember the ignore what she says, consider how she act, if she is a annoying b!tch then why spend time on her?
She is normal, and in fact she is nice girl , when I asked her again what does she mean , she said she meant she is emotional.
she act very respectfully and sexually she is submissive , is there any way to check her true nature ? once I became mean to her and she start crying which support the idea that she is on submissive side more than aggressive .
 

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Howiestern said:
She has a troubled past. She is just warning you. I would pass on this one.

I have been with 2girls that said similar things as this one has. I hung out for a while and what they said came true.
was they normal and bacame crazy later or that happened from the beginning, how can I trigger some thing that will show her true nature early ?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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from experience this is a sign of trouble. Her friends probably know more than you about this. Be forewarned!
 
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