"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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When a woman say "I am angry person" is it a magor red flag?

evan12

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or do they say it to show we cant walk over them easily. she look normal woman except she told me a couple of times she is angry person .
has any one have experience with this ?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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how she is around you? remember the ignore what she says, consider how she act, if she is a annoying b!tch then why spend time on her?
 

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Dear Evan,
Some one who says "I am angry person" is trying to bully you,maybe I would ignore it once,should it happen again I would just remember her as a receding form in my rear vision mirror...You don't have to tolerate intimidating behaviour...In this Country if the tables were reversed and you said that to her,you could get an apprehended violence order filed on you in the Family (read Feminazi)Court.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I agree with samspade 100%. Any woman who says that seriously is most definitely going to open up a can of whoop-ass on you real soon. It's a gigantic red flag. If I heard that I would get out of Dodge immediately.
 

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evan12 said:
or do they say it to show we cant walk over them easily. she look normal woman except she told me a couple of times she is angry person .
has any one have experience with this ?
Nope, no experience with it, however common sense applies here.

Depends what you want from her.

If you're considering a relationship, then I would view that as a pretty screwball thing to say. Screams low class, manipulative bubblehead.

If it's just for the sake of spurt, then some demonic bed action might be kind of fun.

SH
 

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She could be trying to ease you in to her craziness, because she knows it going to come out eventually. A "setting the expectations" sort of thing. So that way, when you come home one day late from work, and see all your clothes strewn out on the lawn, instead of raising all holey hell, you'll say to yourself: "eh...she's just an angry person. I'll go sweet talk her and calm her down, then we can have a nice dinner."

She could also be trying to turn you into Captain save a ho. Every night, while laying in bed, you could be her therapist and talk about her feelings, and make excuses for why she slashed your tires that morning.

Either way, that's a weird thing to tell someone.

Whatever you decide to do, you've been warned....by her.
 

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She has a troubled past. She is just warning you. I would pass on this one.

I have been with 2girls that said similar things as this one has. I hung out for a while and what they said came true.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Are you some little shrimp? She might set you up with the cops, but she aint gonna whup ya.
 

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This could mean a lot of things.

All of them bad.

I suggest the Amityville Horror strategy.

(geetttttttt oooooooouuuuuuuuuuuuttttttttttttttttt!)
 

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Alvafe said:
how she is around you? remember the ignore what she says, consider how she act, if she is a annoying b!tch then why spend time on her?
She is normal, and in fact she is nice girl , when I asked her again what does she mean , she said she meant she is emotional.
she act very respectfully and sexually she is submissive , is there any way to check her true nature ? once I became mean to her and she start crying which support the idea that she is on submissive side more than aggressive .
 

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Howiestern said:
She has a troubled past. She is just warning you. I would pass on this one.

I have been with 2girls that said similar things as this one has. I hung out for a while and what they said came true.
was they normal and bacame crazy later or that happened from the beginning, how can I trigger some thing that will show her true nature early ?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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from experience this is a sign of trouble. Her friends probably know more than you about this. Be forewarned!
 
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