When a woman loses weight after getting divorced for "revenge", why couldn't she have done it before?

[MatureDJ]

I was reading this, and it got me interested:

Was Adele's ‘100-lb weight loss’ an act of revenge after divorce with ex Simon Konecki?

The weight loss is reportedly credited to Adele being on The Sirtfood Diet, which encourages the consumption of plant-based foods such as kale and buckwheat

meaww.com

my opinion: It's pretty obvious the contempt a woman has for her husband when she loses weight after getting divorced instead of while being married.

 

[bcude]

Nothing motivates you like being rejected by someone you deeply care for. I assume it's the same for women.
Also being single makes you naturally want to raise your SMV as much as possible to find the best possible mate.
Third thing, women seem to be very into making a major change of some sort after a breakup, as in new haircut, clothes etc. (new happy life!) so that's that too.

 

[RangerMIke]

Women know that their greatest asset are her looks and her attitude. When a married woman puts on weight and gets b1tchy it means she is not happy and has given up on the relationship. She is subconsciously hoping she will chase off the dude in her life. Once he is gone, she has to get another on the hook, so she'll drop the weight. I'm sure that there is a level of 'revenge' involved, but that indicates at some level that she cares about the dude she just shook off which is a big assumption.

Most women will not take proactive action to 'fix' as relationship, it's the man's job to get her emotions pointed in the right direction. If her emotions are right, and she remains attracted to the man in her life, she will take care of herself physically and mentally.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I was reading this, and it got me interested:

Was Adele's ‘100-lb weight loss’ an act of revenge after divorce with ex Simon Konecki?

The weight loss is reportedly credited to Adele being on The Sirtfood Diet, which encourages the consumption of plant-based foods such as kale and buckwheat

meaww.com

my opinion: It's pretty obvious the contempt a woman has for her husband when she loses weight after getting divorced instead of while being married.

Right!!! And then all this wild sex she's having. When during marriage she had the man cucked.

 

[Lookatu]

Once Fat always fat. There were a couple women that drop massive weight after high-school and i couldn't shake the image.
And what happens to all that skin?

Exactly.

I've actually dated gals that has lost good amount of weight and the skin is always there unless they get surgery, unless they were only temporarily fat. The lifelong fatties though can only take care of the excess skin through surgery. Where as the temporary fat ones may have their skin shrink back.

ADVICE to any DJ's looking for LTR's here where weight is a big thing for them:
Do not invest or get tied up with any gal that has to always workout or watches what she eats because once she gets complacement and secure in a relationship with you, I guarantee she will stop doing those things and gain the weight back. You wanna find gals that are naturally on the thin side and low maintenance where they don't really need to do a whole lot to look good.

I'll give Adele a good 4-5 years until she gives up on the looks thing and all that weight comes back. Of course she has money so she could basically go back in every year for liposuction and tummy tuck...

 

[Who Dares Win]

We all have goals and we do what is necessary to obtain them if we want them bad enough.

Married fat women already reached theirs therefore have no reason to work hard, single women didnt reach theirs therefore are willing to put some work in it.

No polish guy ever heard of "game" or improves his clothes and life style till the late 00s for the simple fact that he could get decent girls for the simple fact of being there.

 

[Hal9000]

Buyer beware. Once a chick establishes she's the type to let herself go when in a relationship, that will never change. So take a good look at her fat pics from when she was married because that's what you'll be dealing with once she gets too comfortable with you.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Because she had no motivation for doing so. Motivation plays a huge role in day to day life. Once someone realises that they would have far better choices if they do xyz then many times they choose to do that.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

Do not invest or get tied up with any gal that has to always workout or watches what she eats because once she gets complacement and secure in a relationship with you, I guarantee she will stop doing those things and gain the weight back. You wanna find gals that are naturally on the thin side and low maintenance where they don't really need to do a whole lot to look good.

You could make the case that if you date girls who are "naturally thin" that when if/when they suddenly start gaining weight, they'll have no idea what to do. On the flip side, if a woman is obsessed with diet and exercise you'll know they have the ability to keep the weight off. If an LTR gets complacent with you and stops trying to be sexy, you've already lost.