"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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When a woman asks for money

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I learned this from my Dad, who has had many women borrow money from him and never pay him back. When a woman asks for money you say

"I have an agreement with the bank... They dont [Insert your profession here] fix medical equipment and I don't loan money."

Haha, I thought that was a pretty good tip from him
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Demon

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When a woman asks for money...

... ask for punani.
... start a game of Monopoly and say, "Earn it."
... shake her as though she's possessed.
... answer your phone.
... walk away.
... have her sign an agreement to repay the loan.
... tell her, "I'd rather donate to charity. At least I'd get a tax break."
... <insert your responses>
 

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Demon said:
When a woman asks for money...
Ask if they're being serious!

Why would you give money to a woman? She isn't a hooker (or is that what we're talking about)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If I'm horney and she's attractive enough to me, then I'll look the other way or move away, because of the risk of lustful thoughts, including the following:

"I dont give out money to strangers, but I'm sure we can work something out, .... wait for her reply ... then

- asking some sort of creepy type of sexual favour such as:
a) asking her to sit on my lap for a few minutes.
b) asking her to undress someplace.
c) asking her to play with her titties.
d) oral / balls.
e) fingering her.
f) feeling her off.

Or some other perverse idea in order to 'work out something'.

This is currently 'illegal' in an action that I would NOT permit myself to do, so in order to crush this at the bud, I'll simply just walk away or refuse to interact with any woman asking for change unless they really look ugly.

I will not have any interaction with anyone in that type of way - and it's best to avoid interactions with some people where there is a risk that it could lead to something like that - or negotiating what you want rather than being purely altrusitic.
 

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honestly, i never felt a need to ask a man i was dating for money.
it is different when you live together and are sharing bills or whatnot, however i think you are talking about someone you are dating.
 
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