"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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When a woman asks for money

fezz

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I learned this from my Dad, who has had many women borrow money from him and never pay him back. When a woman asks for money you say

"I have an agreement with the bank... They dont [Insert your profession here] fix medical equipment and I don't loan money."

Haha, I thought that was a pretty good tip from him
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Demon

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When a woman asks for money...

... ask for punani.
... start a game of Monopoly and say, "Earn it."
... shake her as though she's possessed.
... answer your phone.
... walk away.
... have her sign an agreement to repay the loan.
... tell her, "I'd rather donate to charity. At least I'd get a tax break."
... <insert your responses>
 

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Demon said:
When a woman asks for money...
Ask if they're being serious!

Why would you give money to a woman? She isn't a hooker (or is that what we're talking about)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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If I'm horney and she's attractive enough to me, then I'll look the other way or move away, because of the risk of lustful thoughts, including the following:

"I dont give out money to strangers, but I'm sure we can work something out, .... wait for her reply ... then

- asking some sort of creepy type of sexual favour such as:
a) asking her to sit on my lap for a few minutes.
b) asking her to undress someplace.
c) asking her to play with her titties.
d) oral / balls.
e) fingering her.
f) feeling her off.

Or some other perverse idea in order to 'work out something'.

This is currently 'illegal' in an action that I would NOT permit myself to do, so in order to crush this at the bud, I'll simply just walk away or refuse to interact with any woman asking for change unless they really look ugly.

I will not have any interaction with anyone in that type of way - and it's best to avoid interactions with some people where there is a risk that it could lead to something like that - or negotiating what you want rather than being purely altrusitic.
 

penkitten

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honestly, i never felt a need to ask a man i was dating for money.
it is different when you live together and are sharing bills or whatnot, however i think you are talking about someone you are dating.
 
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