B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
A girl lost attraction to me because Satan gave me nice guy syndrome. How do I change her mind? I don't want her back I just don't want her to think I'm a nice guy
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
When a girl thinks you are a nice guy
- Thread starter B0redandl0nely
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
I lost a girl to nice guy syndrome and its driving me insane. I should have been sexier and manlier
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
This good looking guy in this lifetime movie kept pictures of the married woman he banged and it reminds me of me keeping pictures of the last girl I was with. I'm not obsessed I swear. I just understand too well what I did and I wanna go back and change it