B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
A girl lost attraction to me because Satan gave me nice guy syndrome. How do I change her mind? I don't want her back I just don't want her to think I'm a nice guy
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
When a girl thinks you are a nice guy
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
I lost a girl to nice guy syndrome and its driving me insane. I should have been sexier and manlier
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
This good looking guy in this lifetime movie kept pictures of the married woman he banged and it reminds me of me keeping pictures of the last girl I was with. I'm not obsessed I swear. I just understand too well what I did and I wanna go back and change it