"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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when a girl talks about someone else..

.illadelph

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there's this girl that i met about a month ago...she was really friendly to begin with. we're on that hug every time we see each other type basis...like just friends...i want to up the ante and have expressed my interest in her. yet i haven't told her straight up that i wanna hook up.

one day she was saying how bad she was...then i was like, "how bad"...she said ask bill(not his name)....and i said, "i'd rather not"...

my thing is, why did she have to bring that up?>?? to make me jealous or something?? then she says..."maybe you'll have to find out for yourself"...

i really wanna hook up with her...i dunno what's gonna happen, but whatever happens, happens...i need the balls to make a move on her..
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Just ignore what she says and go by what she does...

She could be testing you or she could be banging bill - no way to tell. Just move forward with the situation.
 

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Originally posted by .illadelph
then she says..."maybe you'll have to find out for yourself.
Thats basically an invitation to make a move on her right then and there. Stop thinking bout it so much and just make your move bro, it sounds like she is interested.
 

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If she just talks about other people then she gossip alot. And she could talk about you behind your back. Also when people talk about others behind their back they fear critism. Again just watch out for crazy b!tchs.
 

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thanks, i think it is time i go by what she does and not by what she says...

she's really touchy whenever we hang out, and she has visited me a couple times @ hollister..

we met up at a football game (my school vs. hers) and she kept asking me if i wanted hugs....then she starts falling into my arms telling me to catch her....

if i'm sure of something, i'm sure she wants me too...

i'm gonna make my move the next time we hang out..all or nothing..

and about the jealousy...i shouldn't be, because we aren't going out or anything...she has guy friends too...i'm just have to hold strong and make it clear that i could give a damn about it...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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