"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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when a girl talks about someone else..

.illadelph

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there's this girl that i met about a month ago...she was really friendly to begin with. we're on that hug every time we see each other type basis...like just friends...i want to up the ante and have expressed my interest in her. yet i haven't told her straight up that i wanna hook up.

one day she was saying how bad she was...then i was like, "how bad"...she said ask bill(not his name)....and i said, "i'd rather not"...

my thing is, why did she have to bring that up?>?? to make me jealous or something?? then she says..."maybe you'll have to find out for yourself"...

i really wanna hook up with her...i dunno what's gonna happen, but whatever happens, happens...i need the balls to make a move on her..
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Just ignore what she says and go by what she does...

She could be testing you or she could be banging bill - no way to tell. Just move forward with the situation.
 

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Originally posted by .illadelph
then she says..."maybe you'll have to find out for yourself.
Thats basically an invitation to make a move on her right then and there. Stop thinking bout it so much and just make your move bro, it sounds like she is interested.
 

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If she just talks about other people then she gossip alot. And she could talk about you behind your back. Also when people talk about others behind their back they fear critism. Again just watch out for crazy b!tchs.
 

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thanks, i think it is time i go by what she does and not by what she says...

she's really touchy whenever we hang out, and she has visited me a couple times @ hollister..

we met up at a football game (my school vs. hers) and she kept asking me if i wanted hugs....then she starts falling into my arms telling me to catch her....

if i'm sure of something, i'm sure she wants me too...

i'm gonna make my move the next time we hang out..all or nothing..

and about the jealousy...i shouldn't be, because we aren't going out or anything...she has guy friends too...i'm just have to hold strong and make it clear that i could give a damn about it...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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