"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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when a girl talks about someone else..

.illadelph

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there's this girl that i met about a month ago...she was really friendly to begin with. we're on that hug every time we see each other type basis...like just friends...i want to up the ante and have expressed my interest in her. yet i haven't told her straight up that i wanna hook up.

one day she was saying how bad she was...then i was like, "how bad"...she said ask bill(not his name)....and i said, "i'd rather not"...

my thing is, why did she have to bring that up?>?? to make me jealous or something?? then she says..."maybe you'll have to find out for yourself"...

i really wanna hook up with her...i dunno what's gonna happen, but whatever happens, happens...i need the balls to make a move on her..
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Just ignore what she says and go by what she does...

She could be testing you or she could be banging bill - no way to tell. Just move forward with the situation.
 

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Originally posted by .illadelph
then she says..."maybe you'll have to find out for yourself.
Thats basically an invitation to make a move on her right then and there. Stop thinking bout it so much and just make your move bro, it sounds like she is interested.
 

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If she just talks about other people then she gossip alot. And she could talk about you behind your back. Also when people talk about others behind their back they fear critism. Again just watch out for crazy b!tchs.
 

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thanks, i think it is time i go by what she does and not by what she says...

she's really touchy whenever we hang out, and she has visited me a couple times @ hollister..

we met up at a football game (my school vs. hers) and she kept asking me if i wanted hugs....then she starts falling into my arms telling me to catch her....

if i'm sure of something, i'm sure she wants me too...

i'm gonna make my move the next time we hang out..all or nothing..

and about the jealousy...i shouldn't be, because we aren't going out or anything...she has guy friends too...i'm just have to hold strong and make it clear that i could give a damn about it...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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