“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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.illadelph

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there's this girl that i met about a month ago...she was really friendly to begin with. we're on that hug every time we see each other type basis...like just friends...i want to up the ante and have expressed my interest in her. yet i haven't told her straight up that i wanna hook up.

one day she was saying how bad she was...then i was like, "how bad"...she said ask bill(not his name)....and i said, "i'd rather not"...

my thing is, why did she have to bring that up?>?? to make me jealous or something?? then she says..."maybe you'll have to find out for yourself"...

i really wanna hook up with her...i dunno what's gonna happen, but whatever happens, happens...i need the balls to make a move on her..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just ignore what she says and go by what she does...

She could be testing you or she could be banging bill - no way to tell. Just move forward with the situation.
 

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Originally posted by .illadelph
then she says..."maybe you'll have to find out for yourself.
Thats basically an invitation to make a move on her right then and there. Stop thinking bout it so much and just make your move bro, it sounds like she is interested.
 

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If she just talks about other people then she gossip alot. And she could talk about you behind your back. Also when people talk about others behind their back they fear critism. Again just watch out for crazy b!tchs.
 

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thanks, i think it is time i go by what she does and not by what she says...

she's really touchy whenever we hang out, and she has visited me a couple times @ hollister..

we met up at a football game (my school vs. hers) and she kept asking me if i wanted hugs....then she starts falling into my arms telling me to catch her....

if i'm sure of something, i'm sure she wants me too...

i'm gonna make my move the next time we hang out..all or nothing..

and about the jealousy...i shouldn't be, because we aren't going out or anything...she has guy friends too...i'm just have to hold strong and make it clear that i could give a damn about it...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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