"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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When a girl starts trying to lock you down

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So you go on dates with a girl, hook up with her, sleepovers and what not. Now she’s trying to lock you into a relationship. But you don’t want a relationship with her. What’s the best strategy to keep her around without giving any commitment?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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R.U.G.

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Evade. Say you are open to a relationship, but I am not rushing into anything. Let's see where it goes and enjoy each others company. Also, after screwing, you should not be sleeping over. Do your business and leave. Or, do her and tell her you have to get up early for work the next morning. Sleeping over can be construed as wanted a relationship; which is fine, if you want one. If you don't, hit it and quit it. Which, for some strange reason, will probably make her want you more. Ehh, woman logic.
 

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So you go on dates with a girl, hook up with her, sleepovers and what not. Now she’s trying to lock you into a relationship. But you don’t want a relationship with her. What’s the best strategy to keep her around without giving any commitment?
I have two plates trying to lock me down.

Limit your exposure to less than once a week.

Give her plenty of time to cool off. Odds are, she'll be too busy blowing off or sh!t testing orbiters.

(it's 2018 and the word 'sh!t' is still censored?)

We've obviously progressed as a human race.o_O
 

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depends on how much of an ******* you are.

Personally, I just string them along with neutral answers, blow hot and cold till no more.
 

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depends on how much of an ******* you are.

Personally, I just string them along with neutral answers, blow hot and cold till no more.
Pretty much.

Just pretend to be an ice princess/sexy b!tch.:p
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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So you go on dates with a girl, hook up with her, sleepovers and what not. Now she’s trying to lock you into a relationship. But you don’t want a relationship with her. What’s the best strategy to keep her around without giving any commitment?
Do literally exactly what @R.U.G. said.
 

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Tell her you’re down for a relationship as long as you can screw other women.
 

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Depends on the woman. I just recently cut off one chick completely after she asked for exclusivity after five weeks. Get the hell out here!

I have another plate who keeps asking me for an LTR after three months. Amazing body, great company but all I can think of is smashing new chicks. Not sure what I will do with this one. Probably keep her on the hook then drop her.
 

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So you go on dates with a girl, hook up with her, sleepovers and what not. Now she’s trying to lock you into a relationship. But you don’t want a relationship with her. What’s the best strategy to keep her around without giving any commitment?

"I'm not in that place in my life but, I'll let you know when I get there."

Let her bring it up. Don't until she does.
 

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So you go on dates with a girl, hook up with her, sleepovers and what not. Now she’s trying to lock you into a relationship. But you don’t want a relationship with her. What’s the best strategy to keep her around without giving any commitment?
I'll be evasive but promise her; follow me and we'll soar into the skies and dive down to the tree tops, you'll enjoy the ride for as long as u r with me.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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