"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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When a girl starts trying to lock you down

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So you go on dates with a girl, hook up with her, sleepovers and what not. Now she’s trying to lock you into a relationship. But you don’t want a relationship with her. What’s the best strategy to keep her around without giving any commitment?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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R.U.G.

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Evade. Say you are open to a relationship, but I am not rushing into anything. Let's see where it goes and enjoy each others company. Also, after screwing, you should not be sleeping over. Do your business and leave. Or, do her and tell her you have to get up early for work the next morning. Sleeping over can be construed as wanted a relationship; which is fine, if you want one. If you don't, hit it and quit it. Which, for some strange reason, will probably make her want you more. Ehh, woman logic.
 

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So you go on dates with a girl, hook up with her, sleepovers and what not. Now she’s trying to lock you into a relationship. But you don’t want a relationship with her. What’s the best strategy to keep her around without giving any commitment?
I have two plates trying to lock me down.

Limit your exposure to less than once a week.

Give her plenty of time to cool off. Odds are, she'll be too busy blowing off or sh!t testing orbiters.

(it's 2018 and the word 'sh!t' is still censored?)

We've obviously progressed as a human race.o_O
 

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depends on how much of an ******* you are.

Personally, I just string them along with neutral answers, blow hot and cold till no more.
 

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depends on how much of an ******* you are.

Personally, I just string them along with neutral answers, blow hot and cold till no more.
Pretty much.

Just pretend to be an ice princess/sexy b!tch.:p
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So you go on dates with a girl, hook up with her, sleepovers and what not. Now she’s trying to lock you into a relationship. But you don’t want a relationship with her. What’s the best strategy to keep her around without giving any commitment?
Do literally exactly what @R.U.G. said.
 

skinnyguy

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Tell her you’re down for a relationship as long as you can screw other women.
 

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Depends on the woman. I just recently cut off one chick completely after she asked for exclusivity after five weeks. Get the hell out here!

I have another plate who keeps asking me for an LTR after three months. Amazing body, great company but all I can think of is smashing new chicks. Not sure what I will do with this one. Probably keep her on the hook then drop her.
 

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So you go on dates with a girl, hook up with her, sleepovers and what not. Now she’s trying to lock you into a relationship. But you don’t want a relationship with her. What’s the best strategy to keep her around without giving any commitment?

"I'm not in that place in my life but, I'll let you know when I get there."

Let her bring it up. Don't until she does.
 

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So you go on dates with a girl, hook up with her, sleepovers and what not. Now she’s trying to lock you into a relationship. But you don’t want a relationship with her. What’s the best strategy to keep her around without giving any commitment?
I'll be evasive but promise her; follow me and we'll soar into the skies and dive down to the tree tops, you'll enjoy the ride for as long as u r with me.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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