thelonewolflegend
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Like not hit her up for a week? How do you know when you do that?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
when a girl starts losing interest or seems like it do you take week off from her?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
thelonewolflegend
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please help
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How do i know when i shouldnt hit her up for wk?
logicallefty
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Yes, going NC for a week or X number of days depending on the magnitude of your suspected loss in IL is a good strategy that I sometimes use.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
backseatjuan
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It's the law of attraction, you push them away they come to you, you get them closer they go away. If she seems to loose interest, even if she says it's something else, you go no contact for sometimes. 1 or 2 weeks seems fine. In this time she will either think of you and want to be with you, or she will see other people and forget about you. After you contact her you will know which one is it. If she contact you in between that's fine, that means she is interested, come up with some lame excuse, mirror her behaviour, if she tells you it's her parents, tell her it's your parent. Then offer her to meet the next day at a particular time, and don't tell her for what occasion or where you going. If she says she can't at that particular time, and you by now should know what time she can and what time she can't, that is a sh1t test.
Why is your rep all red? I promot here 9/11 truth, Russia, and other unpopular things, including calling people the N word and I still have green reputation. WTF did you do to get so much red rep.
Why is your rep all red? I promot here 9/11 truth, Russia, and other unpopular things, including calling people the N word and I still have green reputation. WTF did you do to get so much red rep.
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I guess I will do that. Look at my posts for when I first signed up last year I was a mess and did not know ANYTHING about attraction or what to do with women complete AFC and was kissing womens ass I met that liked me and she lost attraction and I scared her off. Now in a practicing learning process with this girl I have learned alot and experienced some in past 2 years but still trying to figure out how to be social fun exciting and make women laugh be tease flirt to them. I still have problems sometimes being mad or negative while I am out also, I was in a car wreck in June and in lot of pain from it from my foot nerves regrowing and bothers me everyday but I am fighting through it all to be happy and on the road to become best male I can try to be.