"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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when a girl starts losing interest or seems like it do you take week off from her?

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yes, going NC for a week or X number of days depending on the magnitude of your suspected loss in IL is a good strategy that I sometimes use.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It's the law of attraction, you push them away they come to you, you get them closer they go away. If she seems to loose interest, even if she says it's something else, you go no contact for sometimes. 1 or 2 weeks seems fine. In this time she will either think of you and want to be with you, or she will see other people and forget about you. After you contact her you will know which one is it. If she contact you in between that's fine, that means she is interested, come up with some lame excuse, mirror her behaviour, if she tells you it's her parents, tell her it's your parent. Then offer her to meet the next day at a particular time, and don't tell her for what occasion or where you going. If she says she can't at that particular time, and you by now should know what time she can and what time she can't, that is a sh1t test.

Why is your rep all red? I promot here 9/11 truth, Russia, and other unpopular things, including calling people the N word and I still have green reputation. WTF did you do to get so much red rep.
 
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I guess I will do that. Look at my posts for when I first signed up last year I was a mess and did not know ANYTHING about attraction or what to do with women complete AFC and was kissing womens ass I met that liked me and she lost attraction and I scared her off. Now in a practicing learning process with this girl I have learned alot and experienced some in past 2 years but still trying to figure out how to be social fun exciting and make women laugh be tease flirt to them. I still have problems sometimes being mad or negative while I am out also, I was in a car wreck in June and in lot of pain from it from my foot nerves regrowing and bothers me everyday but I am fighting through it all to be happy and on the road to become best male I can try to be.
 
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