thelonewolflegend
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Like not hit her up for a week? How do you know when you do that?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
when a girl starts losing interest or seems like it do you take week off from her?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
thelonewolflegend
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please help
thelonewolflegend
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How do i know when i shouldnt hit her up for wk?
logicallefty
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Yes, going NC for a week or X number of days depending on the magnitude of your suspected loss in IL is a good strategy that I sometimes use.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
backseatjuan
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It's the law of attraction, you push them away they come to you, you get them closer they go away. If she seems to loose interest, even if she says it's something else, you go no contact for sometimes. 1 or 2 weeks seems fine. In this time she will either think of you and want to be with you, or she will see other people and forget about you. After you contact her you will know which one is it. If she contact you in between that's fine, that means she is interested, come up with some lame excuse, mirror her behaviour, if she tells you it's her parents, tell her it's your parent. Then offer her to meet the next day at a particular time, and don't tell her for what occasion or where you going. If she says she can't at that particular time, and you by now should know what time she can and what time she can't, that is a sh1t test.
Why is your rep all red? I promot here 9/11 truth, Russia, and other unpopular things, including calling people the N word and I still have green reputation. WTF did you do to get so much red rep.
Why is your rep all red? I promot here 9/11 truth, Russia, and other unpopular things, including calling people the N word and I still have green reputation. WTF did you do to get so much red rep.
thelonewolflegend
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I guess I will do that. Look at my posts for when I first signed up last year I was a mess and did not know ANYTHING about attraction or what to do with women complete AFC and was kissing womens ass I met that liked me and she lost attraction and I scared her off. Now in a practicing learning process with this girl I have learned alot and experienced some in past 2 years but still trying to figure out how to be social fun exciting and make women laugh be tease flirt to them. I still have problems sometimes being mad or negative while I am out also, I was in a car wreck in June and in lot of pain from it from my foot nerves regrowing and bothers me everyday but I am fighting through it all to be happy and on the road to become best male I can try to be.