"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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when a girl starts getting defensive

lamobatsman

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what does this mean whena girl suddenly starts geeting aggressive adn defensive to you?

for example:

you ask her how come she doesnt talk as much or reply to your messages and she gets agressive saying she doesnt have time and that shes busy. in a very agressive way.

Are these signs that a girl is not interested also?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I'm just discovering all of the techniques that need to be applied in order to get the best return out of your investments when it comes to dating women, but I can be pretty sure this can be construed as low interest.
 

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yes. im just seeing where i cud have walked away well before i met up with her in london. She was getting like this 3 weeks before she flew in
 

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also i would very much like someone to analyse my conversation and interaction with her if anyone has the time to do so. Just so i know where i went rong really. remember i never had met her before.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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lamobatsman said:
also i would very much like someone to analyse my conversation and interaction with her if anyone has the time to do so. Just so i know where i went rong really. remember i never had met her before.
How about a link?
 

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This is why you don't call them out. They can blow up on you and make you feel stupid. Why would you go there? Once low interest, flaking, and disrespect occur, you just cut your losses, delete her number and move on with no contact. It is just so easy to do. A little hard to get over at times, but that is your best possible solution to maintain sanity.

Every day on SS there are guys who just refuse to let go, try to 'win her back', or want a magic text to get her interest through the roof!

Bro-chachos: that shıt doesn't exist!

Keep calm and keep nexting.
 

lamobatsman

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atom-smasher- its a long conversation so it would have to be in private the link. unless i can add it here? its nearly 2 months worth but thats all our so called "relationship" was.

Dont you find it strange that before she would always apologise before i even had a chance to call her out for her not replying? she had changed for god knows wat reason il never know! i did ask!!
 
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