Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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when a girl starts getting defensive

lamobatsman

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what does this mean whena girl suddenly starts geeting aggressive adn defensive to you?

for example:

you ask her how come she doesnt talk as much or reply to your messages and she gets agressive saying she doesnt have time and that shes busy. in a very agressive way.

Are these signs that a girl is not interested also?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'm just discovering all of the techniques that need to be applied in order to get the best return out of your investments when it comes to dating women, but I can be pretty sure this can be construed as low interest.
 

lamobatsman

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yes. im just seeing where i cud have walked away well before i met up with her in london. She was getting like this 3 weeks before she flew in
 

lamobatsman

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also i would very much like someone to analyse my conversation and interaction with her if anyone has the time to do so. Just so i know where i went rong really. remember i never had met her before.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Atom Smasher

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lamobatsman said:
also i would very much like someone to analyse my conversation and interaction with her if anyone has the time to do so. Just so i know where i went rong really. remember i never had met her before.
How about a link?
 

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This is why you don't call them out. They can blow up on you and make you feel stupid. Why would you go there? Once low interest, flaking, and disrespect occur, you just cut your losses, delete her number and move on with no contact. It is just so easy to do. A little hard to get over at times, but that is your best possible solution to maintain sanity.

Every day on SS there are guys who just refuse to let go, try to 'win her back', or want a magic text to get her interest through the roof!

Bro-chachos: that shıt doesn't exist!

Keep calm and keep nexting.
 

lamobatsman

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atom-smasher- its a long conversation so it would have to be in private the link. unless i can add it here? its nearly 2 months worth but thats all our so called "relationship" was.

Dont you find it strange that before she would always apologise before i even had a chance to call her out for her not replying? she had changed for god knows wat reason il never know! i did ask!!
 
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