"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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when a girl starts getting defensive

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what does this mean whena girl suddenly starts geeting aggressive adn defensive to you?

for example:

you ask her how come she doesnt talk as much or reply to your messages and she gets agressive saying she doesnt have time and that shes busy. in a very agressive way.

Are these signs that a girl is not interested also?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm just discovering all of the techniques that need to be applied in order to get the best return out of your investments when it comes to dating women, but I can be pretty sure this can be construed as low interest.
 
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yes. im just seeing where i cud have walked away well before i met up with her in london. She was getting like this 3 weeks before she flew in
 
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also i would very much like someone to analyse my conversation and interaction with her if anyone has the time to do so. Just so i know where i went rong really. remember i never had met her before.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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lamobatsman said:
also i would very much like someone to analyse my conversation and interaction with her if anyone has the time to do so. Just so i know where i went rong really. remember i never had met her before.
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How about a link?
 
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This is why you don't call them out. They can blow up on you and make you feel stupid. Why would you go there? Once low interest, flaking, and disrespect occur, you just cut your losses, delete her number and move on with no contact. It is just so easy to do. A little hard to get over at times, but that is your best possible solution to maintain sanity.

Every day on SS there are guys who just refuse to let go, try to 'win her back', or want a magic text to get her interest through the roof!

Bro-chachos: that shıt doesn't exist!

Keep calm and keep nexting.
 
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atom-smasher- its a long conversation so it would have to be in private the link. unless i can add it here? its nearly 2 months worth but thats all our so called "relationship" was.

Dont you find it strange that before she would always apologise before i even had a chance to call her out for her not replying? she had changed for god knows wat reason il never know! i did ask!!
 
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