"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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when a girl starts getting defensive

lamobatsman

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what does this mean whena girl suddenly starts geeting aggressive adn defensive to you?

for example:

you ask her how come she doesnt talk as much or reply to your messages and she gets agressive saying she doesnt have time and that shes busy. in a very agressive way.

Are these signs that a girl is not interested also?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm just discovering all of the techniques that need to be applied in order to get the best return out of your investments when it comes to dating women, but I can be pretty sure this can be construed as low interest.
 

lamobatsman

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yes. im just seeing where i cud have walked away well before i met up with her in london. She was getting like this 3 weeks before she flew in
 

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also i would very much like someone to analyse my conversation and interaction with her if anyone has the time to do so. Just so i know where i went rong really. remember i never had met her before.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Atom Smasher

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lamobatsman said:
also i would very much like someone to analyse my conversation and interaction with her if anyone has the time to do so. Just so i know where i went rong really. remember i never had met her before.
How about a link?
 

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This is why you don't call them out. They can blow up on you and make you feel stupid. Why would you go there? Once low interest, flaking, and disrespect occur, you just cut your losses, delete her number and move on with no contact. It is just so easy to do. A little hard to get over at times, but that is your best possible solution to maintain sanity.

Every day on SS there are guys who just refuse to let go, try to 'win her back', or want a magic text to get her interest through the roof!

Bro-chachos: that shıt doesn't exist!

Keep calm and keep nexting.
 

lamobatsman

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atom-smasher- its a long conversation so it would have to be in private the link. unless i can add it here? its nearly 2 months worth but thats all our so called "relationship" was.

Dont you find it strange that before she would always apologise before i even had a chance to call her out for her not replying? she had changed for god knows wat reason il never know! i did ask!!
 
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