"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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when a girl says "u must be very popular"

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what does this mean?

does it mean that the girl has some insecurities deep down or is it some kind of sarcasm?

i got this when the girl that i was seeing saw a bunch of pics of me partying and chilling with other girls and after that she just started playing more and more games with me and basically stopped chilling with me
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"I know! I make Jesus Christ look like a pile of puke!'
 
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carlitos said:
what does this mean?

does it mean that the girl has some insecurities deep down or is it some kind of sarcasm?

i got this when the girl that i was seeing saw a bunch of pics of me partying and chilling with other girls and after that she just started playing more and more games with me and basically stopped chilling with me
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It means you have passed the social proof test and you are in with a great chance.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hmm ok..that sounds reasonable

but i guess because of that she's starting to play a lot of games with me and starting to flake on me a lot...i do think she's waiting for some kind of real talk..

how should i approach this now?
 
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Say: Come hang with me and I'll make you popular.
 
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It means you have passed the social proof test and you are in with a great chance.
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This is probably it. If she's playing games, it could be a sign that she is trying to draw you in.

There could be a chance that all the pictures with tons of chick was a turn off for her. In other words, she sees loads of competition and isn't up for that. But in the end, it's far better if a girl sees you as being desirable to friends and other girls than thinking she can have you all to herself. If she is the rare case that this totally backfired, move on and forget about her.
 
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carlitos said:
hmm ok..that sounds reasonable

but i guess because of that she's starting to play a lot of games with me and starting to flake on me a lot...i do think she's waiting for some kind of real talk..

how should i approach this now?
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Question for you.

If she's not that interested in you, why are you wasting your time chasing someone who doesn't like you? Do you really want a relationship with a women who doesn't like you enough to keep her plans with you, which will lead to her disrespecting you in the future because she doesn't like you that much?

Flaking is a direct result of LOW IL. Its because you didn't create attraction when you were interacting with her up to that point. So stop focussing on the flake and focus on what your doing wrong. Step up your game gentelmen.
 
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I'm even bigger in Japan.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Could mean you have a reputation. Nothing to worry about though, being popular has never been construed as negative so there's no real reason to worry about it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Entropy4 said:
It probably means she thinks you're popular.

Don't over-complicate things.
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Good one.
 
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